Harvey Milk Day: Honoring the Legacy of a Beloved Gay Activist

Harvey Milk Day is a California state holiday observed annually on May 22 (Milk's birthday). The day serves as a reminder of Harvey Milk and his legacy advocating for civil rights and the LGBTQ+ community. 

Let’s take this opportunity to learn more about the famous activist and how he helped transform the LGBTQ+ community into what it is today.

Who was Harvey Milk?

Harvey Milk will forever be known as the first openly gay man elected to public office in California. 

He was born in Woodmere, New York, in 1930 and moved to San Francisco in the early 1970s. He first ran for public office in 1973, throwing his hat in the ring for the San Francisco Board of Supervisors. 

Milk lost that bid, but the following year, he became the co-owner of Castro Camera in San Francisco's Castro District. There, he became involved in several community organizations, including the Castro Village Association and the Gay Democratic Club.

In 1977, Milk ran for the Board of Supervisors again, and this time he won. As a Supervisor, Milk fought for the rights of the LGBTQ community, senior citizens, and other marginalized groups. 

In 1978, he helped defeat Proposition 6 (the "Briggs Initiative"), a statewide ballot measure that would have banned gay people from working in California public schools. That same year, Milk sponsored a bill prohibiting discrimination based on sexual orientation in employment and housing, one of the earliest examples of gay rights legislation in the United States.

Inspirational Quotes from Harvey Milk

• "Hope will never be silent."

• "All young people, regardless of sexual orientation or identity, deserve a safe and supportive environment in which to achieve their full potential."

• "Coming out is the most political thing you can do."

• "If a bullet should enter my brain, let that bullet destroy every closet door in the country."

• "All men are created equal. No matter how hard they try, they can never erase those words. That is what America is about."

• "The only thing they have to look forward to is hope. And you have to give them hope. Hope for a better world, hope for a better tomorrow, hope for a better place to come to if the pressures at home are too great. Hope that all will be all right. Without hope, not only gays, but the blacks, the seniors, the handicapped, the us'es, the us'es will give up."

How Did Harvey Milk Die?

On November 27, 1978, Daniel White, a former member of the Board of Supervisors, assassinated Milk and San Francisco Mayor, George Moscone. 

Milk's death was particularly devastating for the gay community. His assassination was seen as a significant loss and a horrifying reminder of the violence and discrimination that LGBTQ+ people face. Moscone's death also shocked San Francisco, where he was widely respected as a progressive leader. 

In the wake of the deaths of Milk and Moscone, thousands of people took to the streets in protest. This eventually led to changes in California state law, including the elimination of the notorious "Twinkie Defense," which had been used by White's lawyers to argue that he was not entirely responsible for his actions.

Despite his short time in public office, Milk is remembered as a significant figure in the LGBTQ community. His legacy continues to inspire people around the world.

What Is the Harvey Milk Foundation?

In 2009, Stuart Milk and Anne Kronenberg founded the Harvey Milk Foundation to honor Harvey Milk's legacy and continue his work of promoting equality and social justice.

The nonprofit organization's mission is to empower LGBTQ+ individuals, allies, and organizations to realize Milk's vision of a world where everyone is treated with dignity and respect. The foundation achieves this by providing education, outreach, and advocacy programs.

One of the Harvey Milk Foundation's first achievements was helping to establish Harvey Milk Day. In 2009, California governor Arnold Schwarzenegger signed a bill creating the holiday after the foundation played a crucial role in advocating for it.

History of Harvey Milk Day

Since Milk died in 1978, people have fought to keep his legacy alive. May 22 was chosen as Harvey Milk Day because it marks Milk's birthday. It represents the struggle for LGBTQ+ rights and the ongoing fight for equality, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity.

In 2022, Governor Newsom signed a proclamation to recognize Harvey Milk Day as an official day of particular significance in California. Outside of the state, it is celebrated by activists for social justice around the world.

How You Can Celebrate Harvey Milk Day

Even if you don't live in San Francisco or the state of California, you can celebrate Harvey Milk Day by helping a variety of causes that benefit the LGBTQ+ community or other marginalized groups. Here are a couple of ways to honor Milk's legacy.

Donate to the Harvey Milk Foundation

The Harvey Milk Foundation relies on donations to continue its advocacy in memory of Milk. Make a donation to show your support for the foundation.

Take Time to Understand the Efforts of Harvey Milk

Harvey Milk will always be known as a tireless activist for the LGBTQ+ community, but he also advocated for senior citizens. He was a proponent of education, affordable childcare, and social justice. He dedicated his short life to the causes that were important to him. If you would like to honor his legacy, learn about and understand his efforts, then follow his lead in your community.

Harvey Milk and the SFGMC

In many ways, the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus will be forever linked to the legacy of Harvey Milk. Here are some ways their shared history has intertwined over the years—and how SFGMC continues to honor Milk's legacy.

Milk was excited when Jon Sims founded the chorus in 1978. Unfortunately, he did not live long enough to hear the group perform. The chorus met for only its fourth rehearsal on the night of his assassination. The first public performance of SFGMC would be at a vigil for Milk, held at San Francisco City Hall.  

In 2013, SFGMC recorded I Am Harvey Milk and released it on CD. The album told the story of Milk's life in a style described as "part choral work, part theater piece." It later won the Soundtrack/Cast Recording award at the Independent Music Awards (IMAs).

In 2021, SFGMC created and awarded the first Give 'Em Hope Awards. Inspired by Milk's famous "Hope" speech, the Give 'Em Hope Awards recognize five artists. They each receive $1,500 to support an artistic project focusing on themes of hope. 

Donate to SFGMC

Like Harvey Milk, SFGMC works to promote acceptance and inclusivity. Make a donation to the cause today. 

All proceeds directly support our programs and performances and help create an inclusive and equal world for LGBTQ+ individuals.

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Gender Pronouns: 5 Ways to Use Inclusive Language

Language is always evolving, playing an important role in how we understand the world, ourselves, and the people around us. As society’s understanding and acceptance of gender identity continues to grow, so does our use of more inclusive and accurate gender pronouns.

This helps create a welcoming and respectful environment for people of all genders.

If you’re new to the concepts of gender identity and inclusive language, here's a quick guide to using gender pronouns respectfully and accurately.

The Difference Between Sex and Gender

The terms sex and gender are often used interchangeably. However, they have distinctly different definitions that can have a significant impact on a person's life experiences and opportunities when used correctly or incorrectly.

Sex refers to the biological differences between males, females, intersex individuals, and hermaphrodites. This is identifying someone strictly by the reproductive organs and chromosomes they were born with or currently have. 

Gender, meanwhile, is a social construct. 

Gender refers to the social and cultural roles, behaviors, and expectations that are associated with the title “boy,” “girl,” “intersex,” “nonbinary,” etc., in a given community. There are over 90 recognized genders in 2023 (with a range of corresponding gender pronouns), each varying across different contexts and time periods. 

Gender can be assigned to someone by another person, or declared by an individual for themself.

Most importantly, though, gender identity is what someone feels is their gender.

While sex is typically expressed as male, female, intersex, or hermaphrodite, gender is a more fluid concept that encompasses a range of identities and expressions beyond the traditional binary definitions. 

What Is a Gender Pronoun?

Pronouns are words used to refer to someone in the third person—for example, in the English language we have he/him, she/her, and they/them. They are most often used to indicate the assumed sex of the person being referred to. They are tied to the binary concept of male or female, with "he/him" being used for males and "she/her" being used for females.

For example, you see someone who is woman-presenting and say, “I gave the book to her.”

But gender pronouns are also a way of respecting someone’s true gender identity, regardless of their assigned sex at birth or how they present to the public.  

The List of Common Pronouns

Understanding how to correctly use gender pronouns may feel like thinking back to elementary school English class. 

To help, here is a table with the most commonly used gender pronouns:

Person	Subject	Object	Dependent possessive	Independent possessive	Reflexive
First	I	Me	My	Mine	Myself
Second	You	You	Your	Yours	Yourself
Third (male)	He	Him	His	His	Himself
Third (female)	She	Her	Her	Hers	Herself
Third (gender neutral)	They	Them	Their	Theirs	Themself

5 Ways to Use Gender Pronouns Correctly

Most of us want to create a safe, friendly environment for the people in our community. By mindfully using gender pronouns and adopting inclusive language, we can make huge strides. 

When you use the wrong pronouns, it can be hurtful, invalidating, and even dangerous. 

For instance, misgendering a transgender person with their sex assigned at birth can contribute to feelings of gender dysphoria, depression, and anxiety. Misgendering also fosters an atmosphere where harassment and discrimination are normalized.

While you should strive to always use an individual’s preferred pronouns, mistakes are bound to happen. This is a process of learning and being open to correction. Here are five things you can start to do to use people’s correct gender pronouns.

1. Share Your Pronouns First

One of the best ways to easily learn other people’s preferred gender pronouns is to share your own first. This shows you support gender inclusivity and strive to create a more welcoming environment, without singling out an individual whose physical sex or gender may appear fluid.

• When you introduce yourself to someone new, try to remember to say your pronouns along with your name. 

• Include your pronouns in your email signature or update the bios of your social media profiles. Instagram, Twitter, TikTok, and Linkedin all have dedicated fields for preferred gender pronouns.

• If you find yourself leading a meeting or teaching a class, include your pronouns in your opening remarks or on the first slide.

The more this becomes the norm, the less shame or hesitation others might feel about sharing their preferred pronouns.

2. Use Gender Neutral They/Them as the Default

Gender is a complex and personal aspect of a person's identity. When we assume someone's gender or pronouns based on their appearance or other factors, we deny them the agency to express their identity, reinforcing harmful gender stereotypes. 

It’s important to note that someone’s preferred gender pronouns may not be obvious. 

Some people may be forthcoming about telling you their pronouns. Others may still be exploring their own gender identity and sexual orientation, not ready to publicly identify themselves to others. And others simply don’t want to share.

For you, the best course of action is to use gender-neutral pronouns such as “they/them.”

It works for all genders and can even be singular or plural, ensuring anyone you are speaking to will feel acknowledged.

3. Just Ask - When The Time is Right

The easiest and most respectful way to find someone's correct gender pronouns is to simply ask them what they prefer.

This comes with caveats, though.

First, you need to be aware of the environment and the present company. Would someone feel safe identifying themselves as trans, gay, non-binary, or anything outside of the CisHet norm (meaning they identify with the sex and gender they were born with and are attracted exclusively to the opposite sex)?

Put yourself in that person’s position. If you wouldn’t want to be singled out based on your sex, gender, or sexual orientation, it’s best to use gender-neutral pronouns. 

If it is appropriate, remember to ask for their gender pronouns in a respectful, non-judgmental way. When possible, asking in a private setting will help ensure the person feels more comfortable.

4. Be Genuine And Apologize if Needed

If you call someone by the wrong gender pronouns, simply apologize and correct yourself. 

Don’t draw attention to your mistake or make a big deal about your apology. After all, it’s not about you. It’s about making the person you’re talking to feel more comfortable. Show that you are making a genuine effort by using their correct gender pronouns in your new conversations and interactions. 

Most people will appreciate your efforts to correct your speech. But if you continually use an incorrect pronoun after they’ve corrected you, it will feel more like a personal slight. 

For example, imagine someone mispronounced your name and you corrected them. Despite that, they continue to pronounce your name incorrectly every time they see you. 

5. Support Groups that Promote Gender-Inclusivity

SFGMC is dedicated to promoting equity, diversity, and inclusion in society. It’s our goal to help create a more respectful and empathetic environment where everyone can feel seen, heard, and valued. 

By offering free events and programs to the public, we are taking the onus of leading conversations around sex or gender off of individuals and letting them show up truly and completely as themselves.

But we can’t do it alone.

Please take the time today to support SFGMC and our continued efforts to promote acceptance and inclusivity. Make a 100% tax-deductible donation today! All proceeds directly support our programs and performances and help create an inclusive and equal world for LGBTQ+ individuals.

These five steps are simple, yet impactful ways to become more inclusive with your language. 

As traditionally marginalized groups gain more acceptance in mainstream society, the topics of gender pronouns and inclusive language will be new to some people. But you can lead by example and show others that it’s not difficult to use gender-neutral language and other people’s preferred pronouns.

It’s worth the effort.

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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Why do gender pronouns matter?

While pronouns can initially seem like a trivial matter (often to CisHet individuals), they make a big difference for others. Using someone’s preferred pronoun is a bit like taking the time to learn the correct pronunciation of their name. It demonstrates respect for their gender identity and lived experiences while creating a more inclusive, judgment-free, and welcoming environment.

What to do if you use the wrong pronouns?

If you have used the wrong pronoun for someone, it’s important to apologize and correct the mistake. Say, “I’m sorry, thank you for sharing that with me.” Then immediately start using the person’s preferred gender pronouns.

What is inclusive language?

Inclusive language is a form of speaking or writing in ways that avoid discriminatory, insensitive, or offensive speech. It seeks to be respectful toward individuals or groups with regard to their gender, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation, abilities, or other characteristics. Using inclusive language means striving to eliminate harmful stereotypes and biases that have been perpetuated by language over time. Using people’s preferred gender pronouns or gender-neutral pronouns are both examples of inclusive language.

What pronouns are gender-neutral?

The most commonly used gender-neutral pronouns are they/them. While some contend that this causes confusion as to whether a single person or a group is being referred to, this argument is often made in bad faith. The truth is “they” and “them" have been used as singular pronouns in the English language for centuries now.

Everything You Should Know About National HIV Vaccine Awareness Day

National HIV Vaccine Awareness Day is observed annually on May 18th. This day was designated to promote awareness of the importance of HIV vaccine research and to recognize the efforts of scientists, healthcare professionals, and community members who are working towards finding an effective vaccine against HIV.

As declared by former President Bill Clinton in 1997, "only a truly effective, preventive HIV vaccine can limit and eventually eliminate the threat of AIDS." 

National HIV Vaccine Awareness Day is a collaboration between the National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases (NIAID), the HIV Vaccine Trials Network, and other organizations working on HIV prevention, testing, and vaccine research.

What is HIV?

HIV (human immunodeficiency virus) is an infectious disease that attacks the immune system. If left untreated, progressive damage to the immune system can lead to AIDS (acquired immune deficiency syndrome). 

HIV is primarily transmitted through contact with infected bodily fluids, such as blood, semen, or vaginal fluids.The most common modes of transmission are sexual contact, shared intravenous needles, and mother-to-child transmission during pregnancy, childbirth, or breastfeeding.

Anyone, despite sexual orientation or gender identity can be infected, so it’s important that everyone get’s tested regularly.

Is There a Vaccine for HIV?

There is currently no vaccine or cure for HIV. However, a class of medications known as pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) effectively serves as a preventive vaccine. Along with post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) medication. 

PrEP and PEP can be used by all people living without HIV. For those infected with HIV, antiretroviral therapy (ART) has proven effective at suppressing the virus, allowing them to lead longer and healthier lives. 

Significant progress has been made in HIV vaccine research, and several potential vaccines are in various stages of clinical trials. Public awareness initiatives like HIV Vaccine Awareness Day present the opportunity for everyone to get caught up on the status of vaccine research.

What Can the Preventive HIV Vaccine Do?

PReP medications stimulate the body's immune system to recognize and fight off HIV before it can take root, essentially reducing the risk of contraction.

Some PReP drugs claim to reduce the risk of getting HIV from sex by 99%, but as with all medical matters, sexually active people should consult their doctors to find the best preventive HIV vaccine for them.

How to Spread Awareness for the HIV Vaccine

Everyone can do their individual part to promote HIV vaccine awareness. Here's a look at some of the best and most effective actions you can take right now.

Take an HIV test

25% of HIV infections stem from people who are unaware they have it. Frequent testing is the best way to know your HIV status and help prevent the spread of the disease. 

Donate to organizations

Several LGBTQ+ and healthcare organizations work to promote HIV awareness. Donating to these groups is a great way to contribute to the HIV cause. The San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus is one such organization, make a tax-free donation today.

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Create a supportive environment

In the early years of the AIDS pandemic, stigma around HIV and AIDS delayed efforts to find treatments, vaccines, and a cure. When you create a supportive, understanding environment, you help us move closer towards a future free of HIV.

Support HIV Awareness by Donating to SFGMC

Whenever the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus performs, we sing for our former chorus members who were lost to the AIDS pandemic. We call this group our "Fifth Section," and we honor them through music and activism.

The San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus holds many events throughout the year to promote HIV awareness. Join our mission by donating today.

FAQs

When did the preventative HIV vaccine come out?

The FDA approved the first PReP HIV preventive vaccine in July 2012. Efforts for a vaccine to inoculate the population against HIV have been underway since 1987.

What is the problem with the HIV vaccine?

PReP medications do not provide immunity to HIV and must be taken regularly to be effective. As with any medication, there is a long list of potential side effects from taking PReP medications.

Can you get AIDS without HIV?

No. AIDS is a condition caused by an HIV infection. The idea that you can get AIDS without HIV is not backed by medical science and is one of the many misconceptions about the disease seen over the years.

Where did HIV come from?

The origins of HIV are believed to stem from a type of chimpanzee in Central Africa. Some studies have shown the virus was transferred to humans through the consumption of infected meat in the late 19th century or early 20th century. However, the virus was not identified until the 1980s. The earliest known case of HIV in humans was detected in a blood sample from 1959. However, the virus likely circulated for decades in underdeveloped countries. In the early 1980s, HIV infection was almost entirely associated with the gay community. As the media and politicians pushed this false narrative, the disease spread to pandemic levels. Today, it is understood that HIV and AIDS can affect anyone, regardless of gender identity or sexual orientation.

How do I know if I have HIV?

The only way to be sure you have HIV is to get tested. HIV testing has come a long way, and there are now several simple, confidential methods to learn your HIV status. This includes a blood test, an oral swab, or a finger prick test. They all detect the presence of HIV antibodies or the virus itself. Since many drugs can now treat HIV effectively, it's best to get tested regularly and seek appropriate medical care if a test shows you have the virus.

What are the symptoms of HIV?

The symptoms of HIV can vary from person to person. You may even have no symptoms, especially in the early stages of HIV infection. Flu-like symptoms are common among those with the virus, including a sore throat, night sweats, nausea, vomiting, and diarrhea. Rashes are also common, particularly on the body's trunk. Lymph nodes may also become swollen, particularly those in the neck, groin, and armpits.

When is National HIV Vaccine Awareness Day?

The National HIV Vaccine Awareness Day is held annually on May 18. To observe the day, look for events in your area that support the development of HIV vaccines. Share groups that work to prevent HIV infection on your social media feeds, and support those groups financially. One worthy example is the International AIDS Vaccine Initiative.

Celebrating IDAHOBIT 2023

IDAHOBIT is coming up in the middle of May. 

The acronym might not roll off the tongue, but it’s a day of action that should be marked in the calendar of every queer person and ally across the US and beyond. 

Especially now, as our community suffers new and reemerging challenges, it’s important to celebrate the rights and freedoms that have been so hard won. IDAHOBIT is the day to do this, as we also work to fight the many ongoing battles faced by the LQBTQIA+ community. 

The San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus works tirelessly to lift every member of the community and amplify all our voices. This was true when the chorus was formed over four decades ago, and it remains true today.

What is IDAHOBIT?

Celebrated every year since 2005, IDAHOBIT is the International Day Against Homophobia, Biphobia, and Transphobia. Sometimes, the name is expanded to include intersexphobia or modified to include lesbiphobia. Fighting both of these is well within the remit and core aims of IDAHOBIT.

Every International Day Against Homophobia, Biphobia, and Transphobia, the international LGBTQIA community and its supporters work together to raise awareness around human rights, gender identity issues, and the many interconnected, ongoing international fights against discrimination of all kinds.

From public hearings in Brazil to rainbow flag parades in Spain, Ramadan iftars in Jordan, and a complete program of events at the UN in New York City, IDAHOBIT is celebrated worldwide. It’s a day for protest, progress, and celebration. 

When is IDAHOBIT?

IDAHOBIT is held on May 17th every year. The date remains constant no matter what day of the week it falls on because 17th May symbolizes hope for the LGBTQ+ community everywhere. It’s a date that proves positive change is possible because of its history. 

Why May 17th? 

On the 17th of May 1990, the World Health Organization removed homosexuality from the International Classification of Diseases and Related Health Problems (ICD-10). 

While homosexuality remains illegal in many countries and homophobia, biphobia, transphobia, and intersexphobia remain real and present issues, the WHO’s 1990 decision was a watershed moment for the queer community. 

IDAHOBIT offers a chance for members of that community to work together to promote equality and acceptance and raise awareness of the struggles they still face. Regardless of sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression, people are part of a wider struggle for equality and acceptance everywhere.

As a day designed around grass roots lobbying and decentralized action, IDAHOBIT is open to everyone. If you want to mark it, organize an event, or participate in something happening locally, you can be a part of the movement. 

IDAHOBIT is everyone’s opportunity to celebrate diversity and center the ongoing struggles faced by the LGBTQIA+ community.

The History of IDAHOBIT

Although it was first officially celebrated in 2005 and commemorated the WHO’s 1990 decision to remove homosexuality from the ICD-10, the International Day Against Homophobia, Biphobia, Interphobia, and Transphobia has deep roots in history. 

Its DNA can be traced back to the late ’80s and early ’90s, when LGBTQ+ activists were focused on protesting against the discrimination, violence, and political and medical othering faced by members of their community.

From 2004-2005, the IDAHO committee pushed for May 17th to be recognized as a day of grass roots action for LGBTQIA+ rights. 

The first official IDAHOBIT was held on May 17th, 2005. At the time, the day was known as ‘IDAHO’, or the International Day Against Homophobia. Over the following years, the title was adjusted to be more inclusive. 

May 17th became IDAHOT, including trans rights explicitly in its fight, and then IDAHOBIT. Now, IDAHOBIT is understood to be a day dedicated to the rights of all people under the broad and welcoming LGBTQIA+ umbrella. 

Despite name changes, the core message of IDAHOBIT has remained the same; events held on May 17th aim to raise awareness of issues faced by the queer community and push for greater equality, acceptance, and inclusivity across society. It’s a chance to address the needs of the LGBTQIA+ community at a local, national, or international level. This flexibility comes from how the day of action is planned and managed. 

No longer organized by a central committee, IDAHOBIT encourages grass roots networks around the globe to take action in whatever way they can. As a collectively-managed event, it is designed to empower groups of all sizes to create change. 

What is the Official Theme of IDAHOBIT 2023?

The theme of the upcoming 2023 IDAHOBIT is “Together always: united in diversity”. 

This theme was chosen in consultation with LGBTQIA+ groups from around the world. As an open invitation to togetherness and community, “Together always: united in diversity” allows for the celebration of human rights defenders, a continued and unified fight for queer rights everywhere, the inclusion of community, and space for allies to join the movement.

As we continue to fight for acceptance across the spectrum of gender and sexuality, and the rights we thought were already secure appear to be in increasing jeopardy, working together is more important than ever. 

As a worldwide movement, we may not be able to gather together in the literal sense, but we are connected by a shared mission and a belief that the world could and will be a better place for LGTQIA+ people.

Wherever you are, however, you’re fighting for a better world, and we’re united in our mission.  

IDAHOBIT Celebrations Around San Francisco Bay Area

Of course, if you happen to be in the Bay Area, you can mark IDAHOBIT with the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus. 

The SFGMC stands with queer people and their allies around the world against homophobia, biphobia, interphobia, and transphobia. 

The history of the chorus is steeped in activism, action, and community building. These days, our mission to combat bigotry through the power of music is carried out from the Chan National Performing Arts Center in the queer heart of San Francisco– The Castro District. 

We welcome anyone into the chorus irrespective of sexual orientation, gender identity, or race. All that matters is a passion for music and the ability to sing in tenor or base range. The SFGMC holds community outreach events throughout the year, as well as RHYTHM, our LGBTQIA+ inclusive elementary, middle, and high school music education program.

To stay up to date with SFGMC performances, community action, and plans for IDAHOBIT, join our newsletter today. Become a part of our community and help us change the world for the better this May 17th and every other day of the year too. 

Celebrate and Support International Transgender Day of Visibility

International Transgender Day of Visibility (TDOV) is a day to celebrate trans people and raise awareness about the issues faced by the trans community. 

Celebrations might be organized at the local or city level and take the form of marches, rallies, parades, or other community events. Social media campaigns have also played a part in spreading the word about TDOV worldwide.

If you’re ready to increase positive visibility for trans individuals this year, we have five great ideas that extend beyond one single day. But first, here’s a bit of history about the International Transgender Day of Visibility.

What Is International Transgender Day of Visibility?

Rachel Crandall, a transgender woman from Michigan, wanted to create a day that celebrated transgender people and their contributions to society. She also wanted a way to raise awareness of the discrimination and challenges faced by the transgender community and non-binary people.

Crandall knew of one day to recognize the challenges faced by the transgender community. But there was not a single day that celebrated their achievements. She imagined a day that would both raise awareness and promote acceptance and understanding of transgender people, their lives, and their experiences.

She wanted a day full of positive stories.

After sharing her hopes for a day of joy and celebration on Facebook, the very first International Transgender Day of Visibility event happened on March 21, 2009. It included a social gathering, a picnic, and a film screening later in the evening. 

From those humble beginnings, TDOV has grown to become observed by local governments, at the White House, and by people around the world. It is truly an international event bringing people together over shared life experiences and support.

Crandall's action at a local level resulted in international awareness. And today, International Transgender Day of Visibility still has room to grow.

Where Is It Recognized?

For over a decade, the International Transgender Day of Visibility has served as a day to stand in solidarity with the trans community. While U.S. states do not yet officially recognize it, many individuals, organizations, corporations, and local governments observe March 31 as an annual "trans day" event.

In 2019, San Francisco became the first city to officially observe the day when it issued a proclamation recognizing March 31 as International Transgender Day of Visibility. 

In 2021, New York City followed suit and issued a similar proclamation. 

In 2021, President Joe Biden also issued a presidential proclamation that stated in part, "(I) do hereby proclaim March 31, 2021, as Transgender Day of Visibility. I call upon all Americans to join in the fight for full equality for all transgender people."

5 Ways to Get Involved and Celebrate International Transgender Day of Visibility

Recognition at a federal level helped spread the word about International Transgender Day of Visibility and solidify its place on our calendars. But, it’s still a movement that must first start in the hearts of individuals and local communities.

Ready to be an ally to trans people, starting right now? 

Here are five ways a single individual can make an impact and promote trans visibility.

1. Never Stay Silent

Make a pledge to yourself and all trans people to start speaking out against discrimination and transphobia when you witness it. Staying silent could endanger a trans person - or someone who loves a trans person. By showing others around you that you will not promote or tolerate transphobia, you can create safer, more comfortable social environments for everyone in your community. And this isn’t just something to do on International Transgender Day of Visibility - it’s something you can carry with you for the rest of your life.

Want to take it a step further? 

Work with your local and state governments and advocate for laws that promote trans rights. There are multiple bills being proposed that could infringe on the rights of transgender youths, and it takes you, as a voting citizen, to help stop them.

2. March and Shop With Pride

If you look more carefully, you will likely find multiple ways to support trans people within your own town or neighborhood: 

• March with parades and proudly celebrate Pride Month. 

• Help start pride month celebrations in your community if they don’t already exist. 

• Support trans-owned businesses, making an effort to purchase products or services from those companies (online and in-person).

• Accompany a trans friend to any and all of the above events to ensure that they feel safe and supported in pursuit of expressing themselves

3. Become a Patron of the (LGBTQIA+) Arts

The LGBTQIA+ art community is a great way to learn more about the trans community and other marginalized groups. You can contact local galleries and venues to see if they support trans artists and musicians. 

Or, you can support online by finding trans creators, advocates, and artists. Follow them, save and share their content, and buy or donate when you are inspired by their work.  

Local to San Fran?
The San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus hosts the Reaching Youth Through Music (RHYTHM) program in many elementary, middle, and high schools throughout the Bay area. RHYTHM promotes awareness and visibility for marginalized groups, including trans youths, through the unifying power of music. 

4. Start a Donation Campaign

International Transgender Day of Visibility is a great excuse to start a donation effort amongst your friends. Start a virtual effort online, or host a party on March 31 and have a silent auction, with all the proceeds going to a nonprofit that’s helping uplift the trans community. 

Multiple organizations offer free support for trans individuals. For example, The San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus does community outreach into local schools, where we can bring a positive impact to young people. Any contribution helps us continue our mission, as we and most other LGBTQIA+ and transgender groups are nonprofits that rely solely on donations and volunteers. 

If donating money isn’t an option for you, you can donate time. Find a trans support organization or community and reach out to see how you can get involved.

5. Learn How to be an Ally and Advocate

Here at The San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus, we’re passionate about sharing our message and mission with the world. And International Transgender Day of Visibility is the perfect opportunity to do so.

If you’re ready to help make a positive impact on your community and your country, learn how to become an LGBTQ+ ally.

Will You Help Us Spread the Word?

The International Transgender Day of Visibility is an example of how a great idea can start with just one person and grow to become an international phenomenon. 

But the work isn’t done. Trans people should feel safe, supported, and celebrated every day of the year. 

Trans rights organizations and LGBTQ+ groups can't continue their mission without your support. If you’d like to take action, make a 100% tax-deductible donation to The San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus today! All proceeds directly support our community programs and performances, helping create an inclusive and equal world for all LGBTQ+ individuals.

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24 Fun & Unique Things to Do in San Francisco

San Francisco is known for a lot of things, including the Golden Gate Bridge, Alcatraz, world-class food, and a diverse entertainment scene. When visiting the majestic bay city, it can be easy to run out of time when you’re trying to see it all. So we’ve compiled a list of the top 24 must-see attractions that will make your visit unforgettable.

1. Lift Your Spirits at One of SFGMC’s Upcoming Concerts

What do Disney, Elton John, and the Wizard of Oz all have in common? They are all on our calendar for season 45 of the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus! Don’t miss out on the magic as we revive timeless classics alongside a 30-piece orchestra, touching on themes like love, LGBTQ+ pride, and family ties.

Since 1978, SFGMC has been at the front lines of the gay liberation movement, inspiring activism and empowering the LGBTQ+ community through music. Experience one of our moving performances and take part in the battle towards equality for the LGBTQ+ community. Join us this year! 

2. Visit the Palace of Fine Arts

One of the most picturesque places in the entire country, the Palace of Fine Arts was modeled after an ancient Greek temple complex and is surrounded by a swan-filled lagoon and lush parklands. Located in the Marina District, it's a favorite for weekend picnics as well as a top spot for wedding photography sessions. 

3. Enjoy the Biggest LGBTQ+ Events in SF

San Francisco is the undisputed capital of LGBTQ+ culture in the United States. That means that no list of the top things to do in San Francisco would be complete without a breakdown of the best of the bunch in terms of LGBTQ+ Events.

From the Castro Street Fair in October to the Folsom Street Fair in September, the Up Your Alley fest in July, to the massive San Francisco PRIDE festival and parade in June, there are world-class LGBTQ+ events all year long. For those looking for something more fringe, don't miss Frameline and the Fresh Meat Festival, both in June.

4. Take a Stroll Through the San Francisco Botanical Garden

Featuring the native flora from not just biodiverse California, but many different ecosystems around the world, the San Francisco Botanical Garden is a beautiful way to spend an afternoon in the city. And because it’s located within Golden Gate Park, the SFBG is close to many other major attractions.

5. Celebrate Black Cultures Through a Global Lens with the Museum of African Diaspora

Dedicated to telling the story of Black culture through the lens of the displacement of Africans, a visit to the Museum of the African Diaspora is one of the most unique, fascinating, and educational things to do in San Francisco. 

6. Experience the Ultimate Surround Sound at San Francisco Symphony’s Film Nights

From Star Wars to Fantasia, join the world-renowned San Francisco Symphony as they play along to blockbusters and classics on the big screen. Remember that the SFGMC also does classic soundtracks, including Disney, throughout the season.

7. Dine in One of SF’s Many LGBTQ-Owned Restaurants

San Francisco has dozens of top-notch restaurants owned and managed by LGBTQ people. From Chef Kasem Saengsawang's Farmhouse Thai to Mat Schuster’s Canela Bistro and Wine Bar, choosing where to eat is the only problem you will face!

8. Indulge Your Passion for the Arts at the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art

One of the top things to see in San Francisco for visitors of all backgrounds, the  San Fransisco Museum of Modern Art (SFMOMA) is a palace of creative delights. From works by masters like Picasso and Miro to top local artists, you will not be disappointed here.

9. Get to Know the Man Behind the Mouse at the Walt Disney Family Museum

Located in the lush Presidio complex, the Walt Disney Family Museum is one of the most eclectic things to do in San Francisco. Learn about the personal and family life of America's most famous cartoonist.

10. Celebrate the Impact of LGBTQ+ Trailblazers at the Rainbow Honor Walk

Follow the plaques dedicated to heroes of the LGBTQ+ movement through the colorful streets of the Castro District on the Rainbow Honor Walk. The Castro District was one of the first gay neighborhoods in the US and home to a famous gay rights activist, Harvey Milk. Today, the neighborhood remains one of the most well-known symbols for LGBTQ+ activism and hosts exciting LGBTQ+ events year-round.

Don’t miss out on this thrilling, colorful experience!

11. Visit the Heart of SF at the Golden Gate Park

One of the greatest urban green spaces in the entire country, Golden Gate Park is a verdant playground that stretches from the Haight-Ashbury district all the way to the Pacific Ocean. 

This epic urban park is also home to several top things to do in San Francisco including the California Academy of Sciences), the de Young Museum, the Conservatory of Flowers,  and the Japanese Tea Garden.

12. Discover a New Page-turner at City Lights Bookstore

One of the most important things to do in San Francisco for book lovers is to visit City Lights Bookstore, in North Beach. This pioneering bookshop and publisher helped launch the beat poetry movement and remains at the heart of the city's literary scene.

13. Nurture Your Child’s Imagination at the Children’s Creativity Museum

Located in the Yerba Buena Gardens, the Children's Creativity Museum is a must-stop for those with little ones in San Francisco. It offers interactive, hands-on activities for children aged 2- 12 years old that inspire creative confidence and problem-solving skills. With an Animation Studio for kids 5 and up, an Imagination Lab for younger ones, and a carousel for everyone, your children can expand their minds and enjoy San Francisco as much as you! 

14. Connect to the Community at the San Francisco LGBT Center

Located on Market Street, the San Francisco LGBT Center is a non-profit that serves all members of the gay, lesbian, and transgender communities. If you’re looking to connect with the LGBT community, this business has a broad network of organizations that they can get you in touch with. Additionally, the LGBT Center has a robust calendar of events and activities of its own that you should check out. 

15. Hitch a Ride with the San Francisco Love Tours

Jump into a brightly painted hippy bus and take a tour of the city by the bay that hearkens back to the Summer of Love. One of the most iconic things to do in San Francisco, besides checking out an SFGMC performance of course. The love tour is a blast from the past.  

16. Order an Irish Coffee from Its Birthplace: The Buena Vista

Established in 1916 and located on Hyde Street, Buena Vista is famous for its creation of Irish coffee. It’s said that in the 1950s, the cafe owner and a travel writer for the San Francisco Chronicle collaborated to make the drink and tried numerous different concoctions before settling on the recipe that Buena Vista still uses today. 

But that’s not all Buena Vista has to offer, it’s a great place to go for breakfast, lunch, and dinner, providing a wide array of different delicacies. 

17. See One of the Most Extensive Collections of Asian Art at the Asian Art Museum

The Asian Art Museum was founded by Olympian Avery Brundage in the 1960’s and is famous for its vast collection of ancient masterpieces. With over 18,000 works of art, some being as old as 6,000 years, the Asain Art Museum is an absolute must-see when visiting San Francisco.

You can expect to see a broad range of creations, including sculptures, jades, painted landscapes, elaborate goldwork, woodblock prints, and more when you tour the magnificent building. Among these incredible treasures, you’ll find great representations of Japanese, Chinese, Korean, South Asian, Himalayan, and Southeast Asian arts.

18. Get the Complete Tiki Experience at the Tonga Room & Hurricane Bar

Located in the Fairmont Hotel, the world-famous Tonga Room & Hurricane Bar offers an incredible experience to everyone who’s okay with a little bit of rain! With a tiki-themed lounge and a blue lagoon, this unique restaurant opened in 1945. It’s full of lively dancing and music and features Polynesian-fusion-style cuisine with beachy rim drinks.

But keep in mind that a few times every hour, the dining venue gets a little “surprise” thunder and lightning storm.

19. Go For a Hike on the Historic Angel Island

Located in the center of San Francisco Bay, Angel Island offers great views of Alcatraz, San Francisco, the bridges, and more. But beyond its prime location and ideal hiking and biking trails, this island is a fascinating place to visit for those interested in history. 

It housed an immigration and deportation facility during WWII, which detained hundreds of thousands of Japanese and Chinese immigrants. Now, you can tour the abandoned military buildings and the immigration museum itself and learn all about the conditions in which these immigrants were unfairly kept before their release.

You can get to Angel Island by the Golden Gate Ferry, which is in operation 7 days a week.

20. Attend a Show at the Iconic Castro Theatre

The Castro Theatre was built in 1922 on Castro Street and became a San Francisco historic landmark in 1976. Its located at the core of the Castro District and is a wonderful part of the lively LGBTQ+ culture. It plays a wide range of films and, in recent years, has been the site for several gala tributes to famous Hollywood actors, including Sandra Dee, Debbie Reynolds, Tony Curtis, and more.

21. Learn Something New at the Exploratorium

The Exploratorium originally opened in 1969 at the Palace of Fine Arts; however, it moved to Piers 15 and 17 in 2013. It was founded by Frank Oppenheimer, a physicist and university teacher, with the goal to teach the public about science. What he originally created as a “library of experiments” for his university students to explore science at their own pace became the model he used to open the Exploratorium.

Today, you can visit the Exploratorium and people of all ages can get hands-on learning experiences on how to build things like windmills, bottle racers, head harps, and more!

22. Strap on Your Skates and Attend the Church of 8 Wheels

Have you ever skated in a church? Well, it just so happens to be the ideal spot to get your groove on with friends. 

One of the few historical relics to survive the 1906 earthquake, the Sacred Heart Catholic Church was originally constructed in 1898 but closed in 2005 due to high maintenance and refitting costs. In 2013, David G. Miles Jr. transformed the gorgeous landmark into a disco-themed roller skating rink called the Church of 8 Wheels. It provides the ultimate skating experience and weekend activity. You can’t leave San Francisco without skating amidst magnificent stained-glass windows and disco lights.

23. Take a Walk on the Wild Side at the San Francisco Zoo

The San Francisco Zoo is on 100 acres of land located in the southwestern corner of San Francisco. Home to more than 2,000 endangered, exotic, and rescued animals, this exciting destination boasts a wide variety of unique and thrilling exhibits. When you visit, you see things like the penguin feedings, lemur forest, African savannah, an open aviary, and much more.

24. Discover the History of Comics at the Cartoon Art Museum

Established in 1984, the Cartoon Art Museum is the only museum in the Western US that specializes in the exhibition of all cartoon art forms. At this fun stop, you can check out everything from old comic strips to anime to political cartoons. Finish out your trip to San Francisco with a bang by visiting this landmark for cartoon history.

No Matter What You Do in SF, Make Sure You Have Fun!

From world-class museums to raging street festivals, the bay city has it all. No matter what your interests are, there are exciting destinations that you’re guaranteed to love. And even if you don’t hit every spot on your list, you can always come back and experience the gorgeous city all over again. 

Take some time when you’re planning your trip to see what events are happening so that you can make sure you’re enjoying your vacation to the fullest. For example, Pride Month is in June and San Francisco is the ideal place to go support the LGBTQ+ community! 

Start your pride celebrations out strong by attending an upcoming SFGMC concert. Join us for our 45th season and experience the magic as we perform timeless Disney classics!

SFGMC Partnerships to Promote the LGBT Community

When the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus (SFGMC) formed in 1978, it was the world’s first openly gay music group. That year, 115 LGBT individuals sang at San Francisco City Hall for the first time, sparking an LGBT choral movement and forging the way for LGBT equality and inclusivity around the world.

However, even though SFGMC was an early pioneer in the movement, we could not have done it alone.

Through several partnerships with like-minded organizations, SFGMC has united the LGBT community to promote diversity, equality, and inclusion. Here’s a look at some of the LGBT partnerships we’re most proud of today and our plans for the future.

The National AIDS Memorial Grove

What is the National AIDS Memorial Grove about?

The National AIDS Memorial Grove serves as a space for the millions of Americans affected by AIDS to gather, share remembrances, and heal together. 

The National AIDS Memorial was first conceived in 1988 as a positive way to express the grief brought about by the AIDS pandemic. A dedicated group of San Francisco residents established a place where people could come alone or in groups to hold memorials and other tributes to lost community members.

Located in San Francisco’s Golden Gate Park, the National AIDS Memorial Grove is situated on 10 acres of land full of flowers and redwoods. The Memorial Grove provides a serene and uplifting place of hope for all who have been affected by the disease, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity.

Why did SFGMC partner with them?

SFGMC is proud to partner with The National AIDS Memorial Grove because of its dedication to all community members whose lives have been touched by HIV/AIDS. Having lost nearly 300 chorus members due to AIDS, this organization holds a special place in the hearts of all SFGMC members.

So in October of 2018, SFGMC celebrated its 40th birthday with a tribute concert and a permanent addition to the National AIDS Memorial Grove. The Artists Portal Monument was built by SFGMC under our former Artistic Director, Dr. Timothy Seelig, in honor of every talented entertainer who lost their lives to the AIDS pandemic.

SFBATCO

What is the SFBATCO organization about?

SFBATCO believes in a San Francisco Bay Area where the live theater is an essential, accessible, and exhilarating part of community life.

In 2012, founders Javier A. Rodney and Earl Jackson Jr. found themselves in Manhattan, a part of New York’s thriving live theater scene. One night, while sitting in a bar, they started to wonder how they could bring a bit of this magic back home to the Bay Area. Finding a pen and whatever they could write on, they laid down the ideas that would eventually become SFBATCO.

Rodney and Jackson’s theater company strives to capture the youthful, artistic energy that makes San Francisco great. SFBATCO’s mission is to create inspiring art and give back to the community, telling uniquely Bay Area stories.

Why did SFGMC partner with them?

SFGMC celebrates SFBATCO’s efforts in the San Francisco arts community. In April 2022, SFGMC partnered with SFBATCO and Tony Award-nominated Broadway composer Andrew Lippa for the world premiere of “Songs of the Phoenix” at the Davies Symphony Hall. 

SF Symphony

What is the SF Symphony about?

The San Francisco Symphony, more commonly known as SF Symphony, brings the power of musical performance to the Bay Area. SF Symphony strives to enrich the lives of all community members by engaging with orchestral music.

Following the devastation of the 1906 San Francisco earthquake and fire, civic leaders set out to create a permanent orchestra. By December 1911, SF Symphony gave its first concerts, marking the re-emergence of the city’s cultural scene. 

Even in its earliest days, SF Symphony has promoted diversity in music, not limiting itself to classical music. Five shows featured the day's popular music among its 13 concerts in the inaugural 1911–1912 season.

Why did SFGMC partner with them?

In July 2022, SFGMC bid farewell to its Artistic Director, Dr. Timothy Seelig. The event was marked by Dr. Seeling joining SF Symphony for the first time. The “Final Words” program at Davies Symphony Hall honored Dr. Seelig's years of a creative partnership with SFGMC.

GALA

What is the GALA about?

The Gay and Lesbian Association (GALA) of Choruses was founded in 1982 with 14 LGBTQ+ singing groups. Today, that number has grown to more than 190 member choruses with over 10,000 singers.

GALA works to help choruses become more effective, from both an artistic and administrative perspective. Every four years, the GALA Choruses Festival brings together more than 130 choruses and 6,000 singers, making the festival the world’s largest LGBTQ+ performing arts event.

Why did SFGMC partner with them?

SFGMC and GALA both serve as vehicles for social change, bringing visibility to LGBTQ+ issues through music and positivity. 

SFGMC's New Building: A Place Where All Communities Can Thrive

The San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus has formed these and many other partnerships in the LGBT community in the 40 years since we began. All of these organizations have shared their resources to help promote a common mission of inclusivity in the LGBTQ community.

Now, SFGMC is offering a place where all communities can thrive. The SFGMC’s new home — now called the Chan National Queer Arts Center— is a four-floor property at 170 Valencia Street, near the Castro neighborhood.

This historic building has a classic art deco façade showcasing scallops, scrolls, and floral motifs appropriate to its 1930’s origin. The interior has more than 23,000 square feet and features a lobby, auditorium, conference rooms, stage, dressing rooms, storage areas, and kitchen. These facilities make the Chan National Queer Arts Center not only a premier arts facility for LGBT people but the entire San Francisco arts community.

The SFGMC’s plans for LGBTQ+ partnerships and other community collaborations are detailed on our website.

Support the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus

Since our founding in 1978, the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus has been embedded in the fabric of San Francisco. Our individual efforts — along with our work with the LGBT community and partnerships with other Bay Area arts organizations — have lifted spirits and offered hope.

Our purchase of the building that was to become the Chan National Queer Arts Center was a big step toward expanding those partnerships. The center gives us a permanent home for our offices and rehearsals and the first-ever community space for LGBTQ+ arts organizations.

Our Growth Depends on You

But we can’t do it alone. Our growth depends on you! Please take the time today to show your support for SFGMC and all of our partner organizations.

Make a 100% tax-deductible donation today. Proceeds directly support SFGMC's performances and programs that promote an inclusive and equal world for LGBTQ+ individuals.

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The Ultimate Guide to Celebrating Pride Month in 2023

Pride Month is coming up—a time when we get to look back at the challenges and victories that the LGBTQ+ community has faced and celebrate how far we’ve come in achieving equality and the freedom to express ourselves. 

So how can you get in on the celebration? 

In this guide, we’ll go over why Pride Month is so important and talk about the best ways to take part in the fun!

What Is Pride Month?

Each year, we celebrate Pride Month in remembrance of the Stonewall Riots, which were pivotal points in the United States gay liberation movement. Though the Stonewall Riots were not the first time the LGBT community stood and fought for their rights, it remains one of the most recognized benchmarks of the LGBTQ movement. The uprising took place in Manhattan, in June 1969, when police raided the notoriously gay-and-lesbian-friendly nightclub called Stonewall Inn. 

Protestors took to the streets and for six long days, neighborhood residents and bar patrons violently clashed with law enforcement. They refused to let the oppression faced by the gay community continue and demanded the freedom for each person to be open about their sexual orientation without fear of imprisonment.

This sentiment was not only echoed throughout the United States, but the entire world could feel the need for change. So now, we celebrate Pride Month– marching in the streets and relishing in the freedom that we once didn’t have.

When Is Pride Month?

Though many cities hold Pride events at other times of the year, Pride Month is nationally recognized in June. Across the country, people rise up in celebration, finding fun ways to shout out to the world that they’re proud to be an ally or a part of the LGBTQ+ community. In fact, every year (except during the Trump-Pence administration), the U.S. Embassy flies the Pride flag in support of the LGBTQ+ community.

One of the best places to celebrate Pride is in San Francisco. San Francisco has one of the biggest Pride Month celebrations in the world, taking place in June and culminating in the massive Pride Festival and Parade that takes over Market Street. 

What Is the Pride Symbol?

The universal symbol of Pride is the rainbow flag. It was designed in 1978 by Gilbert Baker of San Francisco as a representation of inclusivity that embraces all the different identities included in the LGBTQ+ movement. Since then, it has been updated to include other groups that are often overlooked in the movement. The rainbow flag is now flown at Pride and other LGBTQ+ events around the world. It symbolizes inclusivity, resistance against oppression, and celebration of the LGBTQ+ lifestyle and movement.

5 Ways To Celebrate Pride

The lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer community, often called simply LGBTQ+, has many ways to celebrate Pride. Here are some of our favorites:

Take Part in a Pride Parade

Pride parades and other Pride events occur year-round in cities and towns across the country and the world. Pride parades, in particular, are the highlight of most pride celebrations around the world and are loads of fun to participate in. Take a look at the global listing of Pride events and parades published by the International LGBTQ+ Travel Association for something near you! 

Learn About LGBTQ+ Literature, Television, and Film

The LGBTQ+ community has produced a wide range of literature, television shows, and films in the last couple of decades. Much of it is dedicated to their struggle against discrimination and oppression and revolves around activist themes.

Check out this list of the top books by LGBTQ+ authors to get started learning more today. Or if you’re looking for something more binge-worthy, here is a list of LGBTQ+ television series to watch this Pride month and here is a top list of the best LGBTQ+ movies ever made. Enjoy!

Give to LGBTQ+ Nonprofits

Many LGBTQ+ nonprofits rely on donations and gifts from supporters to keep doing the important work they do for the community. This includes fighting against discrimination and helping members of the community who are disadvantaged in different ways. Consider giving to LGBTQ+ communities to help keep the momentum going. The SFGMC annual fundraising drive is underway right now; click here to help us keep producing great music. 

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Learning the History of Pride Month

Learning about the Stonewall riots and important figures in the gay liberation movement, like Harvey Milk, is also a meaningful way to support the LGBTQ+ movement and celebrate Pride Month. Here is a great list of LGBTQ+ resources you can draw from to learn about the history of Pride Month and why we should all attend and show our support. 

Wear LGBTQ+ Friendly Clothing

When you wear LGBTQ+-friendly clothing, you publicly support the movement and help us advance the cause by making it more mainstream. Many shops in San Francisco and online specialize in LGBTQ+ clothing, including the Gay Pride Apparel shop. Get colorfully fitted for the next Gay Pride parade and festival. 

Learn the Different Flags and What They Mean

Flags serve as sociopolitical representations of visibility, community, and belonging. Throughout the country, you may have seen a variety of Pride flags at community celebrations and festivals, outside homes and businesses, on sidewalks, and even flown over Congressional buildings. Each flag represents a different group within the LGBTQ+ community and by learning what each of them means, you can help everyone feel more seen. 

Support the LGBTQ+ Community

The LGBTQ+ community is vibrant and creative and has overcome many obstacles, but there is still much more work to do. Consider supporting the SFGMC this Pride Month with a one-time or annual donation today!

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FAQs

What happens during Pride Month?

Pride Month is full of festivals and celebrations, as well as events like film festivals, book readings, and talks that celebrate the LGBTQ+ movement. Different cities and countries celebrate Pride differently, but the most common form of celebration is a parade that takes over the streets and fills them with music and dancing. This carnival of color and fun actually has its roots in the street protests that broke out after the Stonewall raids in New York City in 1968. Now, Pride parades are the cornerstone of Pride Month pretty much everywhere in the world.

How Do I Celebrate Pride Month as an Ally?

Allies are not only welcome but essential to the LGBTQ+ movement. They help us get our message to the mainstream and act as front-line support for our cause when it comes to protests, demonstrations, and other actions against discrimination. Allies show up for the LGBTQ+ community when there are incidents that require massive numbers of support and to celebrate with us, which is usually a lot of fun.

When Did Pride Month Start?

Pride Month started in June 1968 with the Stonewall riots in New York City. It has been celebrated annually since then. In 1999, President Bill Clinton declared June the official Gay and Lesbian Pride Month in honor of these riots and the Gay and Lesbian Liberation Movement that was born from them. In 2011, President Barack Obama expanded the definition of Pride Month to include the entire spectrum of the LGBTQ+ community.

19 Influential Gay Musicians From Throughout the Decades

Today, the LGBTQ+ community can look to several gay musicians for inspiration, but that wasn’t always the case. Several pioneering openly gay singers paved the way from a time when sexual orientation wasn’t a topic for public discussion. 

Indeed, these famous gay musicians faced tremendous backlash and damage to their careers because of their honesty and openness.

As we explore queer performance art, we pay homage to those who came before us. In this piece, we’ll list some of the most influential names in the queer art movement and their impact on our past and present.

Being an Openly Gay Musician

Undoubtedly, the entertainment industry has come a long way in accepting and representing LGBTQ+ individuals. However, it wasn't always this way, especially for musicians.

Coming out as a gay musician in the 20th century was no small feat. It required immense courage and determination, especially when the music industry was predominantly hetero-normative. 

Sexuality was not only a taboo topic for public discussion but could also result in alienation from fans and even cause damage to one's career. As such, many gay musicians chose to keep their sexual orientation hidden for fear of retribution. 

Take Bruce Wayne Campbell (known by his stage name Jobriath), for example. He was not only one of the first openly gay rock musicians to get signed to a big record label, but tragically, he was also one of the first internationally famous musicians to die of AIDS. Despite tremendous talent, he also came up against severe backlash for his sexuality.

Music Activism as a Tool for Change in the LGBTQ+ Community

In the face of such challenges, many gay musicians turned to music activism to advocate for their rights and create change. Over the decades, gay musicians have utilized music's power to connect people and spread important messages, and the LGBTQ+ community and gay history are no exception.

Through their songs and performances, these courageous individuals were able to shed light on important issues and promote love, tolerance, and acceptance. They used their platforms to speak out against discrimination and fight for equal rights for all.

Now, let's turn our attention back to musicians like Jobriath, who are or were openly gay in the music industry. Their bravery and willingness to be themselves have helped pave the way for future generations of LGBTQ+ artists. They serve as a reminder that it is possible to thrive as a musician while being true to oneself.

19 Famous Gay Musicians

Now, here’s a look at 19 of the other most influential gay musicians throughout the decades.

1. Benjamin Britten

Benjamin Britten is one of the greatest composers of the 20th century. He was also open about his homosexuality in a time and place where being gay was heavily stigmatized and illegal. In 1953, Britten was among the signers of a letter to a newspaper called The Observer, which demanded decriminalizing homosexuality, which was then punishable by imprisonment in the UK.

Many of Britten’s songs were dedicated to his lover and muse, Peter Pears. Some of Britten's works, such as his opera Peter Grimes, dealt with themes of persecution and social exclusion, making him an early advocate for LGBTQ+ visibility.

2. Akihiro Miwa

Japanese cabaret performer, singer, actor, drag queen, and social activist Akihiro Miwa began his career as a cabaret performer in the 1950s, quickly gaining notice for his androgynous appearance. Miwa's performances often included a mix of Japanese and English, along with extravagant costumes and makeup.

As an openly gay performer in a largely conservative society, Miwa's activism has promoted greater acceptance and understanding of LGBTQ+ people in Japan. He has been a vocal proponent of same-sex marriage and has spoken out against discrimination and harassment.

3. Little Richard

Richard Wayne Penniman was born in 1932 and began singing in church at an early age. In the early 1950s, he began performing in clubs and bars, developing the stage persona Little Richard.

Today, many artists and historians recognize Little Richard as a very influential figure in the rock and roll space. As one writer put it, such recognition eluded him in his heyday because he was “too black, too queer, too holy” for mainstream acceptance in the 1950s.

Despite his rock and roll success with hits like “Tutti Frutti” and “Lucille,” Little Richard remained connected to the church throughout his career, even becoming a minister in 1957. He later returned to secular music but continued to draw on his religious beliefs in his music. Little Richard passed away on May 9, 2020, at the age of 87.

4. Sir Elton John

Singer, songwriter, and pianist Sir Elton John is one of the most successful and influential musicians ever, with over 300 million records sold worldwide. Born Reginald Kenneth Dwight in 1947, John began playing the piano at a young age.

In the 1960s, John established himself in London bars and clubs, eventually earning a record deal in 1969. His 1970 self-titled album started a long run of commercial hits, including “Your Song,” “Rock Man,” “Tiny Dancer,” “Crocodile Rock,” and “I’m Still Standing.”

Since the 1980s, John has become equally well-known for his philanthropic efforts, including his work with the Elton John AIDS Foundation. Now, he is widely considered one of the most successful and influential gay musicians of all time, winning five Grammy Awards to date and an Academy Award for his work on the soundtrack for the film The Lion King.

5. Freddie Mercury

As Queen shot to fame in the 1970s on the strength of hits like “Bohemian Rhapsody,” “We Will Rock You,” and “We Are The Champions,” the focus was on their flamboyant lead singer, Freddie Mercury. His powerful vocals and eclectic stage style combined elements of rock, pop, opera, and even more esoteric styles.

In the late 1980s, Mercury was diagnosed with AIDS, a highly stigmatized and misunderstood disease. His death at age 45 in November 1991 shocked millions of fans. But it also led to a greater understanding of the effects of the disease, bringing visibility to the issue outside of the gay community. Today, Mercury is seen as a pioneering figure for LGBTQ+ visibility.

6. George Michael

English singer, songwriter, and producer George Michael rose to fame as a member of the pop duo Wham! With hits such as "Wake Me Up Before You Go-Go," "Careless Whisper," and "Last Christmas." In 1987, he began a solo career with the album Faith, which spawned even more worldwide hits like the title track, “Father Figure,” and “One More Try.”

In the 1990s, Michael became involved in HIV/AIDS activism after his partner, Anselmo Feleppa, died from AIDS-related complications. He worked tirelessly to raise awareness about HIV/AIDS, often donating the proceeds from his concerts to charities supporting people with the disease. In 1992, he performed a version of "Don't Let the Sun Go Down on Me" with Elton John at a benefit concert for the Elizabeth Taylor AIDS Foundation.

Michael, one of the most popular gay musicians of his time, passed away on December 25, 2016, but his music and LGBTQ+ activism continue to inspire fans.

7. Rob Halford

Rob Halford is best known as the lead vocalist of the British heavy metal band Judas Priest. Halford came out as gay in a 1998 interview with MTV News, making him one of the first well-known heavy metal musicians to identify as queer openly. He initially feared that revealing his sexual orientation would alienate Judas Priest’s fanbase, known for its masculine and macho image.

However, Halford’s fears proved unfounded—he was widely praised for his courage and honesty. He continued to perform with Judas Priest, and the band’s popularity grew. His coming out is now seen as a pivotal moment toward greater acceptance and LBGTQ+ visibility in the metal community.

8. Big Freedia

Big Freedia is the “Queen of Bounce,” a style of music that originated in New Orleans and is characterized by uptempo beats. Their influence on music, specifically in the hip-hop and R&B space, was solidified with their collaborations with artists like Beyonce (on “Formation”) and Drake (several songs, including the chart-topper “Nice For What”).

Big Freedia’s music has long celebrated Black, queer, and transgender culture. Their platform extended to TV after appearing in the reality TV show Big Freedia: Queen of Bounce on the Fuse network. 

9. Lil Nas X

Lil Nas X shot to fame in 2019 when his country-rap song “Old Town Road” topped numerous charts across genre lines. Shortly afterward, he came out as gay in “c7osure.” He then endeared himself to fans by openly and honestly discussing his difficulty in accepting his own sexual orientation.

In an interview with Gayle King, Lil Nas X detailed his long journey to self-love and acceptance. He has since been open about his struggles with anxiety and depression, making him an inspiring figure to many young people seeking approval. 

Now, Lil Nas X is known for his willingness to embrace his true self, even in the face of intense media criticism, making him a symbol of hope and empowerment for the LGBTQ+ community—or fans of any sexual orientation.

10. Ricky Martin

Known worldwide as the "Livin' La Vida Loca" singer, Ricky Martin came out as gay in 2010. He admitted to staying quiet for years due to fear of damaging his career but ultimately decided living authentically was more critical.

Since coming out, Martin has actively supported LGBTQ+ rights and even established his own foundation, The Ricky Martin Foundation, to advocate for children's well-being and human rights.

11. Sam Smith

Sam Smith rose to fame with their soulful voice and hit songs like "Stay With Me" and "Writing's On The Wall." In 2014, they came out as gay, and in 2019, as non-binary and genderqueer, using the pronouns they/them.

Since then, Smith has been an outspoken advocate for LGBTQ+ rights and has used their platform to raise awareness about the community's issues. They have also been open about their struggles with body image and mental health, using their music to spread messages of self-love and acceptance.

 12. Troye Sivan

Troye Sivan is an Australian singer, actor, and YouTuber who came out as gay to his fans in a heartfelt YouTube video in 2013. He has since become a prominent figure in pop music, known for his catchy songs like "One of Your Girls" and "Rush." 

Along with being a gay musician, Sivan is also an actor, and with both his music and acting, he hopes to "make a better world for LGBT people that are to come."

13. MNEK

MNEK, whose real name is Uzoechi Osisioma "Uzo'' Emenike, is a British singer, songwriter, and producer who publicly came out as gay at 18. He has been an advocate for LGBTQ+ representation in the music industry and has worked with numerous artists, including H.E.R., Selena Gomez, and Beyonce, as a songwriter and producer. 

In 2019, MNEK created a one-of-a-kind songwriting camp for LGBTQ+ singer-songwriters in association with Pride in Music.

14. Adam Lambert

Adam Lambert's first claim to fame was being the runner-up on the eighth season of American Idol. In 2009, he came out as gay in an interview with Rolling Stone. Since then, he has become a prominent figure in the music industry, known for his powerful vocals and dynamic performances. 

Lambert's career has included solo albums, collaborations with Queen, and a successful residency in Las Vegas. He was honored with the GLAAD Media Award in 2013 for promoting equality through his music. 

15. Clay Aiken

Clay Aiken gained fame as the runner-up on the second season of American Idol in 2003. While he didn't publicly come out as gay during the competition, he later confirmed his sexual orientation in a 2008 interview with People magazine. Aiken's music career includes several successful albums and Broadway performances, making him a notable LGBTQ+ artist.

16. Rufus Wainwright

Known for hits like his cover of Leonard Cohen's "Hallelujah" and "Going to a Town," Rufus Wainwright has been openly gay since the start of his career. His music often explores themes of love, heartbreak, and identity from a queer perspective. Wainwright's authenticity and talent have made him a beloved figure in both the music and LGBTQ+ communities.  

17. Lance Bass

Lance Bass skyrocketed to fame as one of five members of the iconic boyband *NSYNC. While he initially avoided questions about his sexuality, Bass came out as gay at the age of 27 in a 2006 interview with People magazine. Since then, he has advocated for LGBTQ+ rights and was even honored with the Human Rights Campaign Visibility Award in 2006. 

In 2014, Bass married his partner, Michael Turchin, and their wedding became the first same-sex ceremony broadcast on cable television. 

18. MIKA

MIKA (Michael Holbrook Penniman Jr.) is a British-Lebanese singer-songwriter known for his colorful pop music and energetic performances. He has publicly identified as gay since 2012 and has also served as an advocate for LGBTQ+ rights and acceptance. 

MIKA's debut album, "Life in Cartoon Motion," included hits like "Grace Kelly" and "Love Today," which showcased his unique style and charisma. His fun, danceable music often explores themes of love, self-acceptance, and embracing one's true identity.

19. Barry Manilow

After keeping his sexuality a secret for decades, beloved singer-songwriter Barry Manilow came out as gay in 2017 at the age of 73. He revealed that he feared disapproval from his fans but ultimately decided to speak his truth and live openly with his partner and now-husband, Garry Kief, whom he married in 2014.

Known for classic hits like "Copacabana" and "Mandy," Manilow's music has touched the hearts of millions around the world. He continues to perform and share his talents with fans, proudly living as a member of the LGBTQ+ community.  

Musical Activism: Donate to Keep Music Alive

Thanks to the bravery of these gay musicians (and many others), the LGBTQ+ community today has more mainstream acceptance than ever before. But struggles with prejudice and visibility remain. We need your support so we can keep making progress. 

Please consider donating to the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus today to help keep the music alive and support the LGBTQ+ choral movement.

The SFGMC has recently moved to The Chan National Queer Arts Center; learn more about the Nation’s first LGBTQ+ community center here.

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Vibrant New Performing Arts Center for the Queer Community in San Francisco

We are excited to announce that The San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus has moved into our new home, at  170 Valencia Street, near the Castro neighborhood, where it all began! After nearly 45 years without a permanent rehearsal room, office, conference room, or community engagement space, we are thrilled to have one! Though it may be our new home, we also want it to serve the community. 

As part of our commitment to the growth of LGBTQ+ students, artists, researchers, activists, and leaders, we will be holding public events as well as housing the Chan National Queer Arts Center in our new building. This space allows LGBTQ+ people to share their experiences and develop projects that will strengthen the community now and for the future. 

New Performing Arts Building

Harold Stoner's 1930s art deco building is a true San Francisco architectural icon. Considering our deep roots within the city, we are delighted to be able to call it home. Initially built for the Independent Order of Foresters, a fraternal society, the building was also the home of a Baha'i center between 1976 and 2018. The four-story building has a large lobby, auditorium, stage, and dressing rooms, elements of which are essential for our chorus to operate successfully. It is necessary to renovate and modernize the interior of the building before it can be used as a performing arts center. 

In his remarks, the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus’ CEO, Christopher Verdugo, emphasizes, “Terry Chan was one of our founding members in the chorus back in 1978.” In honor of Mayor George Moscone and Supervisor Harvey Milk, a candlelight vigil was Chan's first performance with the chorus. Since the first concert, Chan has been intensely proud of the chorus and "loves the chorus with his full heart," Verdugo explains, which is evident from his deeply personal commitment to the LGBT community. Chan's commitment to the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus led to his grateful founding gift with his husband, Edward Sell, of $5 million. Chan, in the words of Verdugo, is an, “amazing, amazing humanitarian and philanthropist.”

Expanding SFGMC's Leadership in the Community

In 1978, San Francisco was introduced to the Briggs Initiative, which would have made it legal to terminate LGBTQ+ employees from public schools based on their sexual orientation. In the same year, a brick-buying campaign was run to raise funds for constructing an LGBTQ+ community center. Verdugo explains, "...the space they were raising funds for was the very space that we're in, 170 Valencia." 

By establishing the Chan National Queer Arts Center, we have brought together the Chorus' legacy and our future endeavors. We are delighted to have our permanent home in San Francisco, CA. Through this, we can strengthen our mission to inspire activism, foster compassion, and build community through music. Additionally, Glenn DeSandre, MD, Chairman, Board of Directors, explains the center "will create opportunities for other queer arts organizations and artists to make music, drama, and art that inspire others to activism to make the world a better place for us all." 

As part of our community integration efforts, we will organize several activities and events throughout the season to continue sharing love and light with San Francisco residents. The Chan National Queer Arts Center, Verdugo continues, "will provide an opportunity for our community to come together, both queer and queer allies, to create art and music and be in that transformational space that allows for the possibility." We will also continue to perform at our favorite venues throughout the Bay Area. 

Performances and Public Programs in San Francisco, California

The San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus can now host community events in ways that were never possible before. Among these featured events are guest performances from LGBTQ+ high school and college choirs from across the country and around the globe.

Now that we have access to new recording and production studios, we will continue producing the Behind the Curtain series, a digital content series featuring exclusive interviews with LGBTQ+ artists and musicians, member-made videos, and more. In addition, we will be able to record our performances and chorus members. 

Community Engagement and Partnerships

With the support of local schools, organizations, and educators, we have advocated for young people and adults for over 45 years. Also, our success with RHYTHM (Reaching Youth Through Music) in San Francisco schools has inspired us to extend our model to other schools all over the country. By joining forces with It Gets Better, we will also be able to offer nationwide performance programs. 

The support and unparalleled leadership we have graciously received over these years will be a powerful asset for our next chapter as a national organization. By engaging the global queer community and the San Francisco community, we will be able to attract some of the world's most talented and creative artists and thought leaders to the Chan National Queer Arts Center. 

This means LGBTQ+ arts organizations and movements can use the Chan National Queer Arts Center for rehearsals and meetings. We'll represent the community comprehensively by exchanging ideas, work, creativity, stories, and passions, advancing the field, and serving as a model for similar centers to be set up all over the country. 

The Chan National Queer Arts Center

In its 45 years of advocacy, the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus has championed civil rights, equality, and acceptance. As a result, social justice and activism permeate our lives and influence everything we do.  

"Rather than create a space just for us," Verdugo clarifies, "our goal is to continue to promote social justice within the queer community." We will fulfill this through music, drama, and art, but we can't accomplish it alone. That's why the Center exists beyond our needs and provides space and resources for other LGBTQ+ artists and organizations to exchange ideas, interact with one another, and incubate new work. 

Towards achieving this goal, the Center's activities will be driven by six areas of focus:

• Create: Production of live-streaming courses, interviews, lectures, clinics, and symposia will be filmed and available on demand worldwide. 

• Share: We will offer workshop space to composers, librettists, choreographers, and other performing artists to share ideas and collaborate on new works. 

• Convene: We will organize a meaningful biannual symposium to foster dialogue and collaboration between activists, artists, and art leaders involved with LGBTQ arts. 

• Teach: We plan to offer internships and training sessions for LGBTQ+ arts managers throughout the year.

• Research: We will partner with local universities to host researchers in the field, providing them with an opportunity to carry out scholarly research on LGBTQ+ arts. 

Performing Arts Center Programming Starts Soon

There will be brand-new original programming at the Chan National Queer Arts Center beginning in the fall of 2023. We will continue expanding our new programs as the renovation continues. Are you interested in being the first to know when we host an event? Stay on top of all the exciting developments! Make sure you sign up for our newsletter today!

How You Can Help

As of January 27, 2020, Chan National Queer Arts Center has received $9.1 million in donations toward its goal of $15 million. Chan National Queer Arts Center is on the brink of reaching our goal, and we'd love for you to join us! It is always a pleasure for us to receive your support of our community. If you want to contribute to the building's construction or the programming we'll be launching in the coming years please contact our development department via email at development@sfgmc.org.. Become a part of our dream of achieving equality for more LGBTQ+ people by donating today. Your contribution can help us reach even greater heights. This is because you will support future artistic endeavors, advance research, spread compassion, build community, and ignite the activism that happens when LGBTQ+ people unite.

Arts Curriculum for Empowering Youth: SFGMC’s RHYTHM Program

Did you know that 20% of California teachers don’t teach their students about people, history, or monumental events in the LBTQIA+ community? Or that an LGBTQIA+-inclusive arts curriculum makes students 82% more likely to feel accepted by their classmates compared to an uninclusive curriculum? Having worked with over 10,000 students, we've seen the power of teaching people about the LBTQIA+ community through music and how it can strengthen communities, incite social change, and improve academic and social performance. With just a little RHYTHM, anything's possible.

What is RHYTHM?

Reaching Youth Through Music (RHYTHM), the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus' social justice outreach program, was launched in elementary, middle, and high schools throughout the Bay Area in 2018. RHYTHM is a fully customized immersive and educational performance featuring workshops, choral singing, and, if available, a collaboration with the school's choir. 

As part of our RHYTHM programming, we provide students with surveys to ensure that the program is tailored and presented according to each grade level's specific needs, as well as addressing each school's unique culture. 

In addition, the program includes a heartfelt performance by 30-40 singers, showcasing the diversity of voices and faces represented by the student body and sharing their experiences of growing up as LGBTQ+ and accepting themselves. 

Why is RHYTHM Important? (Why is RHYTHM Needed?)

RHYTHM offers students a diverse representation of the LGBTQ+ community that they need to feel a sense of belonging, as well as lessons designed to increase their understanding of LGBTQ+ issues facing the community. It empowers them with ideas on how to act as leaders for change in their communities, and educates them on the vocabulary necessary to describe themselves (should they wish to use it) and other students respectfully; which teaches students how to be authentic and proud of who they are. As a result, students recognize their differences, validate each other's identities, feel a sense of solidarity, and learn how to express themselves creatively without the fear of judgment. 

At the core of RHYTHM is our curriculum, designed to help students understand the personal effects of their actions and words to prevent bullying, promote positive attitudes, and highlight the value of inclusion. To illustrate this point, the chorus members meet with students to share their experiences as LGBTQ+ youth, what it was like to come out, and what it feels like to embrace your most genuine self. Consequently, students gain valuable skills in self-expression, have more self-confidence, and reach their full potential.

What is an LGBTQIA+ Inclusive Curriculum?

With an LGBTQIA+ Inclusive Curriculum, students receive a comprehensive curriculum and classroom discussions that integrate history, culture, and monumental movements associated with LGBTQIA+ individuals. 
Including LGBTQIA+ figures in the academic curriculum will help students develop a more holistic understanding of history. In addition, it provides a positive representation of LGBTQIA+ people and normalizes LGBTQIA+ identities and experiences for non-LGBTQIA+ students.

Inspiring Social Change and Fostering Community

Including LGBTQIA+ people in your curricula won't eradicate all forms of bullying. However, the better our nation's understanding of LGBTQIA+ people is, the greater our ability to build empathy, improve connections, enhance collaboration, and increase respect for LGBTQIA+ individuals. Furthermore, accurate representations allow LGBTQIA+ students to see themselves reflected in their learning, which motivates and engages them, boosts self-esteem, increases self-worth, and improves academic performance, as well as helps them understand their role and contribution to society, making them feel valued and wanted by society. 

Additionally, students who are comfortable and feel at ease in an inclusive school are more likely to consistently attend classes than those that are not. A sense of belonging and continued attendance in classes minimize conflict and hostility in the classroom. By showing compassion and having the courage to speak out against injustices in the classroom, the playground, and the community, students move from critical understanding to action.

Enhancing Student Achievement

As part of the RHYTHM program, students learn various academic and social skills they can utilize in their present and future lives. The learning process fosters students' ability to think creatively, collaboratively, and critically while enhancing skills such as community building, friendship development, and social support from students they might not have thought would have anything in common. 

The 2022 results of the Trevor Project's National Survey on LGBTQ+ Youth indicate that 73% of LGBTQ+ youth reported anxiety symptoms, and 58% reported depression symptoms. Unfortunately, 60% of LGBTQ+ youth who wanted mental health care in the past year could not get it. Unrecognized or untreated mental health issues can adversely affect students' ability to make and maintain friendships and their academic performance, interfering with their academic goals and ability to graduate. Adolescents with mental health problems may also struggle during their transition from adolescence to young adulthood because of emotional and behavioral difficulties. 
The RHYTHM program emphasizes honesty and vulnerability to encourage acceptance, happiness, and confidence; reducing stress and depression among students. 

Upon the conclusion of RHYTHM, SFGMC emphasizes the importance of teamwork and embracing differences through performance. Seeing the passion of our singers and participating in this project empowers students to use their voices to make a positive difference in the world. Whether they participate in an event, protest, write lyrics, or teach, students walk away knowing they can profoundly contribute to their communities. 

Young people can benefit significantly from an LGBTQ+-inclusive curriculum because it allows them to explore their world and learn more about themselves through an open and accepting environment. 

The Chan National Queer Arts Center was created with your support, allowing us to expand the RHYTHM program and work with other LGBTQ+ choruses, organizations, and local queer leaders across the country. If you are like us and share our dedication to building community, sharing personal stories, providing education, and utilizing music to connect with students so they can live authentically, please consider donating today! 

How to Be an LGBTQ+ Ally: Powerful Steps to Take

Everybody can ally with LGBTQ+ people. Being an ally, however, doesn't just mean saying it. To make other people think and understand why being an ally is essential, you must speak up, and vote for people and propositions that will keep LGBTQ+ people safe, provide equal opportunities, and challenge social norms. In addition, to be an active ally, you must educate yourself, stay informed, and stay updated on current events.

Those who are part of majority groups, such as white, heterosexual, and cisgender people, are some of the most valuable allies we can get because they are in a stronger social position and are more likely to be heard by all. Are you curious about becoming an ally? Keep reading! 

How to be a Good Friend and Queer Ally

Thanks for joining us! Here is our five-step guide on how to be a good friend and a queer ally. But, before you start your allyship journey, we have a bonus tip for you: While listening to LGBTQ+ people, it's essential to keep in mind that the LGBTQ+ community is diverse and has such a wide range of lived experiences, philosophies, and values that no single viewpoint can genuinely represent the whole community. To be successful, no group, whether marginalized or not, should be treated as a monolith. 

Make Yourself Available

Our first tip is to be available. This means committing and scheduling the prearranged time to ensure you are there when they need you. To be a better ally, you should be able to listen to others express themselves and ask respectful questions when they share important stories or have discussions with you.

Listen to LGBTQ+ People

Being an ally also involves listening to LGBTQ+ people outside of your normal circle. You can better understand LGBTQ+ perspectives, how the world works for them, and how others treat them by listening to them and truly hearing what they say. Understandably, they may feel vulnerable sharing such information, but keep an open mind, ask thoughtful questions, and remain ready to learn. Don't speak over them or interfere as they talk to you. 

A person's truth is their own, and talking over them can be intimidating and may make them hesitant to share further. Also, it would be helpful to research and prepare ahead of time. Aside from giving you an overview of the LGBTQ+ community and current events, you will also understand what questions are appropriate and what questions are not. You will demonstrate a genuine interest in learning rather than relying on them to tell you everything.

Show Up, Be Present, and Lead with Empathy

LGBTQ+ people continue to fight tirelessly for their rights, to prove that their lives are no less valuable than everyone else's. There are plenty of opportunities for allies to shine here, too. Attend LGBTQ+ events and protests, and encourage your friends and family. Think about how you would feel if your government stripped you of your fundamental rights, and then imagine how LGBTQ+ people must feel. 

You can be more effective as a social justice activist if you understand other people's thoughts and feelings. Empathy inspires your passion for a cause and can help you build close relationships with community members and allies. 

You can also show up by joining community groups dedicated to LGBTQ+ rights, subscribing to their email lists, following them on social media, and making your presence known. Also, if you have the resources and time to volunteer at some local LGBTQ+ organizations or nonprofits, you might find the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus to be an excellent place to volunteer. 

Use Your Privilege to Help Amplify Voices

Making space and amplifying the voices of LGBTQ+ people is crucial to utilizing your privilege as an ally. Public or private settings are an excellent opportunity to use your voice. For example, if you hear someone say something offensive toward the LGBTQ+ community, acknowledge their comment, explain the problem, and use it as a teachable moment. Then, start a conversation and encourage allyship. In addition, be aware of how much space you are taking up; if someone in the community would prefer to respond, let them speak first. The goal is to learn to talk with LGBTQ+ individuals, not for them.

Don’t Make Assumptions About LGBTQ+ People

An ally should never make assumptions about the lives and identities of LGBTQ+ people. As a result, you may have to do internal work since you're addressing your default assumptions and unconscious biases. However, we all do it, so don't feel like you're alone! 

If you assume someone's sexuality or gender identity based on how they dress or speak, notice it, make a mental note or write it down, and take the time to process and understand where that assumption is coming from. Additionally, it is important to listen to social cues when talking; if someone uses gender-neutral pronouns to refer to another person, do not assume their gender but continue using the same pronouns.

Furthermore, you should not assume that just because a person says they had an ex-partner of a given gender, they are automatically a particular gender or sexual orientation. In addition, it is important not to assume that you have the right to share someone's birth name simply because you know it. What’s more, do not assume that a transgender individual has undergone medical interventions merely because they are transgender. Finally, don't assume that someone who comes out to you is out to everyone; allow people to come out at their own pace and as they please.  

Educate Yourself on Issues 

To be better allies, you must be aware of LGBTQ+ civil rights movements and pivotal events, such as the Compton’s Cafeteria Riot in 1966 or the Stonewall Riots in 1969. Throughout history, discover individuals who have pushed and fought, and even put their lives on the line, for LGBTQ+ rights. Further, learn about the countless individuals and groups omitted from history books or whose biographies neglect to mention their sexual orientation or gender identity. In addition to watching documentaries and reading books, the Internet is a great place to get further information and learn about LGBTQ+ history and the community's current struggles and triumphs. If you are interested in finding out more about the legislation affecting LGBTQ+ people, the ACLU is a great place to start., You can also find blogs and articles written by LGBTQ+ people and allies. 

Support and Share Queer Businesses & Charities

Outside of participating in physical spaces or on the Internet, another way you can support queer people is to become a conscious shopper. Your money allows you to make a direct impact on the government. When shopping, think about supporting LGBTQ+ businesses, restaurants, and cafes. When you buy consciously, you reduce your chances of helping companies, ideologies, or political campaigns that are homophobic, biphobic, or transphobic. Contributing your time and money as a volunteer at LGBTQ+ organizations and charities is always worth it if you have the resources. 

Take Action

To be an ally, you have to be ready to act. Being an ally is a full-time responsibility; for example, you must call out discrimination everywhere you see, whether it is homophobic, biphobic, or transphobic. Express what about their words or actions was offensive and explain why and how their actions impact others. When you are out with family and friends, at work, or at school, amplify the voices around you. 

To make a difference, we need to hold those around us accountable for their actions and words. Change often moves from one person at a time, so you need to be a change agent wherever you go. 

How SFGMC Helps the LGBTQ+ Community Through Music

We believe that social justice, inclusiveness, and acceptance play a vital role in the success and strength of LGBTQ+ communities. As a result, we use our lyrics to sing and belt out our truths and beliefs at our shows. 

Our lyrics aim to raise awareness, promote acceptance, and broaden people's perception of queer life. We can change the course of queer history when we sing as a collective. For the LGBTQ+ community to be its most successful and strong, we all must be involved in social justice, inclusivity, and acceptance. By performing our music, we can inspire other LGBTQ+ individuals to unite, feel powerful in their authentic selves, and build community locally and globally. 

In 1981 we went on our first national tour. While we didn't know it, it would be a pivotal moment for the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus and our future. Our lyrics' power was evident through the tears of parents and the excitement of LGBTQ+ people coming together to celebrate the joy of belonging. This tour prompted many cities to form gay choruses, which continue to flourish today - internationally! 

The feeling of connecting LGBTQ+ people around the world and finding joy in being themselves with one another is unparalleled. There can't be enough emphasis placed on finding your passion and using it to inspire social justice and activism in those around you. 

Takeaways

Starting a new way of life can be intimidating, but once you start incorporating these five steps into your day-to-day life, it will become second nature to you. As soon as you master one step, the others will follow suit inherently because they all blend into one another. Don't be afraid to explore ideas, perspectives, and concepts you've never considered - that's a part of the learning and growing process. 

You do not need to follow any numerical order. Instead, start anywhere comfortable for you, and feel free to go at your own pace. For example, you can begin volunteering with local organizations to meet folks in the community, learn from them, and show your support and belief in what they do. Experience how we support and encourage other LGBTQ+ folks at our Holiday Spectacular! Donating is another excellent way to contribute to the LGBTQ+ community, as it ensures safe spaces for LGBTQ+ people to remain open and accessible and allows them to earn a living. There are many ways to support the community, so go out and do what feels best! 

FAQs

What does ally mean?

An ally provides support, empowers, or advocates for another person or group.

Why is it important to be an LGBTQ+ ally?

By supporting LGBTQ+ people, you encourage them to recognize their value as powerful people with valid identities, a right to be heard, and deserving of respect. Unfortunately, due to the current political climate and the increasing anti-LGBTQ+ legislation, more and more violence is being directed against the LGBTQ+ community, especially against Black queer and transgender people. As an ally, you promote equality, acceptance, respect, and dignity for others; your actions can save lives.

What does the + mean in LGBTQ+?

The plus represents the inclusion and recognition of all the other sexual and gender identities within the LGBTQ+ community. Over time, as we become more aware of inclusivity and representation, we will be able to add more letters to ensure more people feel seen and valued in the community.

International Holocaust Remembrance Day: Honoring LGBTQ Victims

In 2005, the UN General Assembly adopted resolution 60/7, establishing January 27th as International Holocaust Remembrance Day to commemorate the millions who suffered at the hands of the Nazi regime during WWII. This resolution also promoted the forming of educational programs to prevent further genocide and reaffirmed the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, stating that “everyone has the right to freedom of thought, conscience and religion.”

Now, every year on January 27th, we remember the victims of Nazism, the impact music had on those suffering in the Holocaust, and the thousands of victims left out of history books.

The Nazi regime killed over 6 million Jewish people, but that was not the total extent of their reach. They also hunted down minority groups that had been facing persecution for years, including members of the LGBTQ+ community, Romani people, and others deemed  “socially abhorrent” by the Nazi party. 

Upon liberation from the Nazi concentration camps, many of these “socially abhorrent” victims did not get the recognition they deserved. Instead, they continued to be hunted and ostracized from society until many years later, leading them to be written out of history books and nearly forgotten.

Persecution of Gay (LGBTQ+) People in Nazi Germany

Even before WWII, Germany had outlawed sexual contact between men, deeming it “immoral.” Paragraph 175 of the German Criminal Code was established in 1871 to prohibit homosexual contact, but each governing body after that enforced it with a different level of severity. In fact, during the Weimar Republic (1918-1933), the LGBTQ+ community experienced a sense of liberty as German politicians questioned whether the criminalization of homosexual individuals was necessary at all. 

However, there were many who opposed homosexuality, including the radical Nazi party, who claimed that sexual relations between men would “lead to the disintegration of the German people.”

Thus, a couple of years after Hitler’s rise to power, he expanded Paragraph 175 to ban a broad range of “lewd and lascivious” behavior between men, making such acts punishable by imprisonment. Homosexuality among women was not punished with the same level of severity because the Nazi regime decided lesbian women could be convinced or forced to help grow the “pure” German race. Hitler’s changes to Paragraph 175 put a stop to the humanitarian advancements that were just beginning to take root in German society.

With the new adaptation of Paragraph 175, Hitler was able to purge the flourishing LGBTQ+ subculture and send thousands of gay men to concentration camps. Upon arriving at the camps, these men were forced to wear pink triangles (or ‘die Rosa-Winkel’) as a part of the prisoner marking system and were therefore easily targeted. 

Along with another group, called “asocials” (a portion of prisoners made up of Roma, nonconformists, and other sub-groups), the gay men were not only tortured by the guards, but also outcasted by other inmates due to widespread prejudice. At that point in history, gay men were not only victims of the Holocaust, but they were also cast out from society by nearly everyone

Mass Killings of LGBTQ+ People

Out of the estimated 100,000 men that were arrested and tried for homosexuality during World War II, about 50% were sent to prison or extermination camps. But because these men were considered criminals, even after their liberation from the Nazis, they were often sent back to prison and their stories were discarded by still-prejudice people. 

They were condemned by society and not acknowledged as true victims of the Holocaust for years, despite their staggering death tolls and long term physical and emotional damage. Gay men in concentration camps were often handpicked for the most brutal hard labor tasks, selected for horrific experiments, sexually assaulted by guards, degraded, sterilized, and castrated.

Instead of sending them to the gas chambers, Nazi guards were ordered to drag out their suffering and as such, they often killed them by way of hard labor. No one knows how many gay men were killed during the Holocaust, but experts estimate around 65% died. Whether by suicide or the Nazi soldiers.

It wasn’t until about 50 years after the end of WWII, on June 11, 1994, that Paragraph 175 was finally cast out from the statute book, officially reinstating homosexual rights in Germany. After over a century of persecution and social injustice, people of the LGBTQ+ community could openly love whomever they chose without fear.

What Role Did Music Play in the Holocaust?

Researchers have found historical documentation of musicians and LGBTQ+ composers who brought music to ghetto camps and concentration camps during WWII. This music brought hope and joy to those suffering from some of the worst war crimes in human history. 

One such musician was Yankele Hershkowitz, who, upon being deported to the Łódź ghetto, soon became a crowd favorite. He would sing in the streets, courtyards, and even factories for food and his neighbors would happily oblige him. 

Eventually, he was deported to Auschwitz-Birkenau and then various other labor camps, where he continued composing songs until he was liberated in 1945. He then returned to Łódź, where he lived out the rest of his life until he died in 1972. To this day, his many published songs continue to inspire Holocaust survivors and everyone else who listens.

Singing Took Place on Several Occasions

Music came in many forms to concentration camps; some were less pleasant than others. A few of those included:

• Singing on command. Knowing that many of the prisoners valued music, Nazi guards often used it as a tool to mock them. They forced inmates to sing during marches, after long work days when they were barely conscious, or whenever they wanted entertainment.

• Official camp orchestras. It became popular among concentration camps to gather prisoners who were amateur musicians or singers to form an official orchestra commanded by the guards. These ensembles performed a greater variety of music than the on-command singing and the musicians were generally treated better than other inmates. However, they were forced to play for not only German holidays and daily announcements, but also for public executions, for the “selection process” so that newly-arrived prisoners did not expect they were about to go directly to their death, and sometimes, they were forced to play near the crematorium as prisoners were being marched inside.

• Spontaneous music. When music was initiated by inmates, it took on a more positive connotation. Performing music for themselves or for other inmates gave them a sense of confidence and reminded them of what their lives were once like while providing them with a diversion from their daily lives.

• Block performances. After the guards had pulled away from the camps for the night, prisoners were often able to gather together in barracks to perform music and skits. This also gave them opportunities to secretly gather for political meetings, though someone always stayed on watch.

Though the Nazi guards tried to ruin a greatly cherished art form for the prisoners, they did not succeed. Instead, inmates found great solace in songs and performances, choosing to let its promise of better days push them through a seemingly hopeless time.

Takeaways

International Holocaust Remembrance Day, January 27th, marks the liberation of Auschwitz-Birkenau, which was once the largest Nazi concentration camp. This day is now a reminder to the world of how dangerous hatred, racism, bigotry, and prejudice are to mankind.

Additionally, it has empowered minority groups who faced Nazi persecution to stand up for their right to live freely. When the AIDS crisis struck and gay men were once again being targeted and persecuted unfairly, the ACT-UP organization used the upside-down pink triangle and turned it right side up to remind people of what could happen again. In their manifesto, they declared that “silence about the oppression and annihilation of gay people, then and now, must be broken as a matter of our survival.” 

FAQs

What is international holocaust remembrance day?

International Holocaust Remembrance Day is an annual international day of commemoration for the six million Jews and other victims that suffered Nazi persecution during World War II.

When is international holocaust remembrance day?

International Holocaust Remembrance Day is on January 27th. It’s dedicated towards honoring the victims of the Nazi regime during the second world war and preventing genocide from happening again. This is being done by providing the younger generations with Holocaust education so that no one ever forgets the horrors and inhumanity seen in the Nazi concentration camps.

Martin Luther King Day 2023

Martin Luther King Jr., a Baptist minister who advocated nonviolent socio-political change, was renowned for advancing racial equality, and leading the Civil Rights Movement.  From 1955 until his assassination in 1968, King led hundreds of civil rights demonstrations, resulting in favorable media coverage and public support. 

Following the Rosa Parks Montgomery Bus Boycott, the Black community in Montgomery, Alabama, staged an overwhelmingly successful bus boycott that lasted nearly a year. As a result of his leadership role in the boycott, King ended up in jail, leading him to become a Civil Rights icon. At age 35, King won the Nobel Peace Prize for his contributions to the American Civil Rights Movement. 

Despite King's significant contributions to society, his birthday was only declared a federal holiday in 1983. In 2000, MLK Day became a national holiday in all 50 states after much public support and campaigning.

 When is Martin Luther King Jr. Day?

Every year, Martin Luther King Jr. Day takes place on the third Monday of January. This year, MLK Jr. Day will occur on January 16th, 2023. Millions of Americans commemorate this holiday with marches, rallies, and speeches celebrating the life of King and reflecting on the importance of anti-racism, racial equality, and social justice. 

During the March on Washington in 1963, Martin Luther King Jr. delivered a speech titled "I Have a Dream," one of the most iconic speeches in American history, to more than 250,000 people on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial. King made his speech precisely one century after Abraham Lincoln freed millions of enslaved people. 

Despite acknowledging that Black people were still far from freedom, King spoke of his hopes for a future of liberty and equality in a country rife with racism. There is no better way to describe this than through the line, "I say to you today, my friends, that in spite of the difficulties and frustrations of the moment, I still have a dream."

Famous Quotes from Martin Luther King

• “The time is always right to do what is right.”

• "Now is the time to lift our nation from the quicksands of racial injustice to the solid rock of brotherhood."

• “We must learn to live together as brothers or perish together as fools.”

• “I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character. I have a dream that…one day, right there in Alabama, little Black boys and Black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls as sisters and brothers.”

• "Life’s most persistent and urgent question is, 'What are you doing for others?'"

• "I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed — we hold these truths to be self-evident: that all men are created equal. Let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred."

• “People fail to get along because they fear each other; they fear each other because they don’t know each other; they don’t know each other because they have not communicated with each other.”

History of Martin Luther King Jr. Day

Although we may understand and associate Martin Luther King Jr. as a pivotal and essential figure in American history, in the 1960s and 1970s, Martin Luther King Jr. Day faced controversy. More so, King's holiday would be the first to celebrate a national figure who wasn't a president and was African American. 

On King's birthday, January 15th, 1968, four days after his assassination, Representative John Conyers introduced the first motion to make King's birthday a federal holiday. Still, it wasn't until 1979 that the motion passed. 

The first attempt fell five votes short of the two-thirds majority despite efforts by Congress and President Jimmy Carter. But that wasn’t the end, in 1981, musician Stevie Wonder released the song "Happy Birthday" to promote King's holiday. In addition, The King Center– established in 1968 by Mrs. Coretta Scott King, King’s wife– organized a March on Washington with approximately 500,000 people. Together, Scott King and Wonder presented a petition, signed by 6 million people, to the House leader, Tip O'Neill.

Martin Luther King Jr. finally received a federal holiday in 1986, almost 20 years after Congress first saw the bill. However, the bill continued to face an uphill battle when it was time for every state to recognize the holiday. As a result, Martin Luther King Jr. Day only gained national recognition in 2000 and continues to collide with Robert E. Lee Day (January 17th, 2023) in Alabama and Mississippi, which honors the infamous Confederate general. 

How Can We Honor Martin Luther King Jr. Day?

In honor of Martin Luther King Jr.'s struggle for racial equality, Martin Luther King Jr. Day is an ideal time to learn more about his life and work and how you can put them into practice. Also, King's Day is the only federal holiday recognized as a "National Day of Service," so rather than staying home, volunteer and get out to give back to your community. Consider his legacy and the valuable messages he has passed on to us that are still relevant today. Let his legacy inspire you. In honoring King this year, let us never forget how far racial equality has come and how much more there is to do.

Activities for adults to celebrate MLK Day: 

• Take the time to get to know King better: Instead of just reading quotes from King, read or listen to his full speeches so you can better understand the context and power of his words.

• Celebrate the lives and work of Black musicians who used music as an "instrument of change".

• Commit to serving others. For example, clean up a public place, mentor a young person, or provide food to those in need. 

• Support organizations that fight for racial justice.

• Support Black-owned businesses.

Check out these activities for kids:

• Discuss with older family members or a person in your community who lived during the Civil Rights era and ask them about their memories.

• Collect cans for food banks, wash cars to raise money for people who are houseless, or send care packages to soldiers abroad. 

• Discuss the dreams MLK had and ask the students/children about the things they dream about for themselves, their families, the country, and the world.

• You can provide or read some books about the Civil Rights movement that are appropriate for children.

Martin Luther King Jr. Day Resources

• For the classroom

• Educational resources

• Teaching beyond MLK's "I have a dream"

• Documents, photographs, and publications 

• Project ideas and tips

In the Civil Rights Movement, Martin Luther King Jr. recognized music's power to bring about change, particularly among young people. Music enabled youth to express themselves and become community leaders and changemakers. 

Martin Luther King Jr. was a significant figure in the Civil Rights Movement, and his message of equality and nonviolence had a profound impact on American culture, including music. Many musicians during the Civil Rights era, particularly in the African American community, created songs that reflected the struggle for civil rights and the philosophy of nonviolence espoused by King. A great example includes "A Change Is Gonna Come" by Sam Cooke. King's speeches and sermons also often included references to music, particularly gospel music, and he used music as a tool for promoting social change.

World Aids Day 2022

The HIV epidemic started over 40 years ago; however, its ripple effect still impacts people in the LGBTQ+ community today. In the early stages of the epidemic, the LGBTQ+ community was already underrepresented and overlooked by society, making them much more vulnerable as the epidemic spread. In addition, the lack of adequate medical research and accessible information to the public, mixed with the preexisting stigma, only exacerbated the homophobia experienced by LGBTQ+ people. Consequently, nearly 675,000 Americans have died of HIV/AIDS since the epidemic began, nearly wiping out an entire generation. HIV/AIDS remains a major global health issue, and 40 million people have died worldwide. However, our knowledge of reliable treatments and preventative measures is improving daily, and the search for a cure is getting closer.

What is World AIDS Day?

World AIDS Day, or International AIDS Awareness Day, is observed every year on December 1st. Worldwide, people show solidarity and support for people living with HIV/AIDS and unite in the fight to end HIV/AIDS. In addition to educating people about HIV/AIDS and its global effects, World AIDS Day is also dedicated to increasing awareness of HIV/AIDS testing, prevention, and access to HIV care, as well as commemorating those who have lost their lives to HIV/AIDS. 

The Impact of HIV on Gay Communities

Early in the AIDS epidemic, bisexual and gay men made up the majority of HIV infections. The media outlets began labeling HIV/AIDS as "gay cancer" and the "gay plague" as anti-gay activists swept the country. The American people tossed aside the humanity of gay and bisexual men while the LGBTQ+ community continued the fight against AIDS. The US government's inaction reinforced homophobia by underfunding and understudying numerous preventions, treatments, and research opportunities. While the government remained silent and without a vaccine or cure on the horizon, AIDS activists tirelessly began establishing service organizations to provide much-needed assistance and resources for those at home and in hospitals. Also, many LGBTQ+ bars and businesses provided resources such as safer sex education and fundraising to cover daily living and funeral costs for those dying of AIDS. 

HIV/AIDS diagnosis rates began to rise dramatically among gay men and bisexual men of color in the mid-1980s, especially among Black and Latino men. Even though many LGBTQ+ bars, businesses, and community members offered resources, white men dominated the volunteer and staff pool. In addition, due to the lack of ability to address the intersections of racism, poverty, and homophobia experienced by people of color, most men of color felt unwelcome and misunderstood by these organizations. AIDS activists from Black, Latino, and Asian backgrounds formed new organizations to combat the epidemic.

Honoring The Lives We've Lost

San Francisco suffered tremendous losses from HIV/AIDS. The San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus had just been founded three years previously, in 1978, when the epidemic began. The Chorus became a refuge for those suffering countless, unimaginable losses throughout the epidemic. As a result of the AIDS epidemic, more than 300 members of the Chorus have lost their lives. We also honor the loss of our founder, Jon Reed Sims, who was diagnosed with AIDS in January 1984 and passed away six months later. However, these members remain integral to the Chorus. In spirit, these members are always on stage with us as we continue to honor and recognize them through our Fifth Section. As part of commemorating these members, we have their names memorialized on our website and in each concert program. Also, within San Francisco's Golden Gate Park, inside the AIDS Memorial Grove, we built the Artist Portal, which has each name engraved onto the monument.

The AIDS Pandemic Today

As of 2021, 38.4 million people worldwide have a positive HIV status. The advancements in HIV research and treatment have allowed many people with HIV to live healthy lives, some of whom have similar life expectancies to HIV-negative people. The life expectancy of people with HIV, however, can be impacted by several factors; for example, the time of diagnosis, starting treatment as soon as possible, access to high-quality medical care and effective HIV treatment, social and economic status, if they've had a severe AIDS-related illness in the past before their diagnosis and or before their treatment began, and the use of intravenous drugs can all shorten the life expectancy of someone with HIV. Like the demographics in the mid-1980s, people with access to resources live longer. Consequently, the same groups who in the past had a high HIV/AIDS rate still have an increased risk of contracting it today. Among the most at risk are gay and bisexual men of all races and ethnicities, followed by people of color, in particular, Black and Latino individuals, intravenous drug users, and transgender individuals.

Protect Against AIDS-Related Illnesses

Approximately 1 in 8 Americans, or 13%, are unaware they have HIV/AIDS. As part of routine health care, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommends that everyone between 13-64 gets tested for HIV at least once. HIV testing is essential, not only for your health but for the health of your partners as well. Those who get tested earlier and more frequently have a greater chance of starting treatment early and being successful if they get a positive test result. Medications can now drastically lower your risk of acquiring and transmitting HIV. HIV-positive individuals can, for example, prevent sexual transmission by taking Antiretroviral Therapy (ART). Similarly, HIV-negative people can prevent contracting HIV by taking Oral Daily Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP). However, the effectiveness may decline if you stop taking either medicine suddenly or if you don't take them as prescribed. 

World AIDS Day Activities 

World AIDS Day often consists of community events and activities to raise awareness, support, and commemorate those who have passed from HIV/AIDS. Community resource centers and nonprofit organizations typically host various HIV-related events, including concerts, memorial services, free HIV testing, discussion groups, and keynote speakers. Additionally, red ribbons can be worn as a symbol of commitment to the fight against AIDS. 

World Aids Day Activities for Students

It is possible for anyone, regardless of age or location, to observe and participate in World AIDS Day. Early HIV/AIDS education is crucial to normalizing, preventing HIV/AIDS from spreading, curbing prejudice, and recognizing those who have made significant contributions to the fight.

One activity you could do is paint murals of LGBTQ+ activists and discuss why they are so inspiring. Organizing a walk or run for HIV/AIDS research and donating the proceeds to a local foundation is another option. Similarly, schools can organize toy and food drives to benefit children living with HIV and their families. In addition, educators can invite guest speakers with HIV or healthcare professionals with HIV experience to present in class. Also, students can wear red ribbons or anything in red, and for everyone who asks them why they're wearing it, they can share an interesting HIV/AIDS fact with them. 

How You Can Help

For over 40 years, we have offered LGBTQ+ people opportunities to share space and be a part of something bigger than themselves at the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus. During the HIV/AIDS epidemic, we provided refuge and love to LGBTQ+ people who had nowhere to go. Attending one of our concerts will not only provide you with great entertainment but will provide support directly to the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus. The generosity of our donors enables SFGMC to continue advocating for and fostering LGBTQ+ communities locally and nationally through both trying and good times. As always, we are committed to educating and spreading awareness, acceptance, and a love of music to LGBTQ+ youth and adults.  

FAQ

What is Aids Awareness Day?

The purpose of National HIV Awareness Day is to raise awareness about HIV/AIDS throughout the year and to learn about people from various communities who have HIV/AIDS, in addition to those from LGBTQ+ communities.

Where Do I Find Gay Organizations Near Me? San Francisco Edition

In San Francisco, numerous community resources focus on wellness, health, safety, advocacy, social justice, and education for LGBT individuals. Unfortunately, there were times when some organizations and community resource centers refused to work with LGBT people, so what could we do? 

In times of societal rejection, our community has turned to one another to demonstrate dignity and respect in a way that otherwise would not be possible. Several of San Francisco's LGBT nonprofits were created by volunteers who worked tirelessly to ensure that other LGBT people had access to housing, clothes, and food. 

In honor of the resources available to us, most of which are nonprofit organizations run by volunteers, we have selected just a handful to share! 

The SF LGBT Center

Providing community support, resources, and a safe place to congregate, the SF LGBT Center is dedicated to serving the LGBT community. In addition to career counseling and job fairs, the SF LGBT center offers a computer lab, social activities for youth, mentorships, workshops, and youth meals. The SF LGBT Center also holds more than 200 events every month.

Lavender Phoenix

Lavender Phoenix is a grassroots organization devoted to healing and restoring the land and promoting self-determination for queer, transgender, Asian, and Pacific Islander (QTAPI) people. QTAPI-led programs are available at Lavender Phoenix in leadership development, community safety, health and care, ecological justice, and movement building.

Brava for Women in the Arts

Brava for Women in the Arts is a professional arts organization that supports the professional development and creative expression of women, LGBT individuals, people of color, youth, and others underrepresented in the arts. As a part of its current programming, Brava hosts music festivals, film festivals, theatrical productions, comedy shows, lectures, live podcasts, and professional dance performances. 

The Transgender District

The Transgender District is an urban environment led by and for transgender people. Providing building ownership, businesses, homes, historical sites, and community space to the transgender community, the Transgender District stabilizes and empowers the community. There are currently six programming initiatives provided by the Transgender District: tenant protection, economic development, arts and culture, cultural heritage conservation, cultural competency, and land use. 

Equality California 

Equality California is an LGBT civil rights organization that advocates for social justice, health and well-being, develops a leadership pipeline, and increases civic participation among LGBT people.

Gay for Good 

Gay for Good is a national nonprofit organization that promotes diversity, fosters inclusion, and strengthens links between LGBT people and their broader communities. Gay for Good provides training and educational resources to community leaders that facilitate inclusive volunteer opportunities for LGBT individuals. 

Gender Spectrum

Gender Spectrum is a national non-profit organization that offers support and education to parents, guardians, grandparents, and others caring for children and teens who are gender-diverse. The organization also provides training resources for educators, medical and mental health providers, and other professionals working with gender-diverse children and young people. Gender Spectrum hosts educational events, groups, and conferences for youth and parents.

GLBT Historical Society

The GLBT Historical Society is a nonprofit organization dedicated to advancing the understanding of the LGBT community in Northern California. In addition to extensive archival materials, artifacts, and graphic arts, the GLBT Historical Society offers a wide range of educational events and exhibits. 

It Gets Better

It Gets Better was initially launched as a social media campaign. However, due to success, the campaign has become a non-profit organization that provides educational resources, media programming, and motivational stories to uplift LGBT youth. 

San Francisco AIDS Foundation

The San Francisco AIDS Foundation is a nonprofit organization that addresses the needs of communities most affected by HIV/AIDS. Furthermore, the San Francisco AIDS Foundation provides services in sexual health, mental health, substance abuse, advocacy, public education, and community outreach. 

San Francisco Pride 

San Francisco Pride is a non-profit organization that works to educate, commemorate, and celebrate the heritage and culture of LGBT individuals and raises funds for local nonprofits

Conclusion

Volunteers are an essential part of the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus. Our volunteers devote their time and energy, ensure shows are run efficiently and hold down multiple forts when we need them most. 

Whether you've been to one of our concerts, seen us on tour, or attended a community event, you've likely met a kind and passionate volunteer; that could be you! We are looking for individuals passionate about creating change, connecting the LGBT community with one another, and fostering compassion through creating extraordinary music. If this sounds like you or someone you know, please consider volunteering with us for an upcoming event today!

The Rise of the LGBTQ+ Choral Movement

Three years after our initial concert, the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus toured the country for the first time in the summer of 1981, just as the 1980s HIV/AIDS crisis was simultaneously becoming more prevalent. This tour served as a spark for what we now know as the LGBTQ+ choral movement—and today we’ll take you through this key moment and others in this social and cultural phenomenon. 

The History of the LGBTQ+ Choral Movement

Throughout history, music has served as a tool for social change and a means of dismantling barriers such as fear and invisibility. As we approach 2024—over 40 years since we began—we are still singing as one and the LGBTQ+ choral movement has grown exponentially since our initial concert. 

The San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus is joined by hundreds of other LGBTQ+ choruses formed since. Did the original singing members imagine it would ignite an uprising or inspire an evolution of LGBTQ+ choral groups? When gay men had little opportunity to meet in public, gay choruses became a source of comfort and support. The need for these spaces contributed to how quickly the movement grew.

How the LGBTQ+ Choral Movement Began

Because so few people stood up for gay people, gay choruses contributed significantly to developing gay pride, a sense of community, and unity with others. With the movement’s expansion, diversity and inclusion have become increasingly important. 

The first gay chorus, although they did not call themselves that, was technically the Anna Crusis Women’s Chorus, now known as the Anna Crusis Feminist Chorus—a lesbian feminist ensemble. It was founded in 1975, “as a community choir with the mission of uplifting the voices of women. It became a safe space for lesbians and straight women alike: a feminist women’s choir.”

When the LGBTQ+ choral movement continued in the 1980s, its focus was largely on creating safe spaces to heal and grieve through music during the AIDS crisis. For existing choruses, the AIDS epidemic “deepened their purpose and reason for being,” explains Timothy Seelig, artistic director of the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus (SFGMC). 

Even beyond the AIDS crisis, the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus has been a strong voice for social justice throughout its history. In fact, the choir’s first performance was a display of mourning the night Dan White assassinated Supervisor Harvey Milk and Mayor George Moscone. 

Standing proudly in solidarity and support for all that Milk had accomplished and, ultimately, given his life, the Chorus gathered on the steps of City Hall, surrounded by tens of thousands of members of the gay community and the San Francisco community in a display of musical activism.

During the Chorus’s 1981 National Tour, they faced significant challenges, including those resulting from the impact of the AIDS crisis. Some Americans were reluctant to interact with LGBTQ+ people because they assumed they would instantly contract HIV. Consequently, several individuals actively avoided the LGBTQ+ community altogether. In response, many LGBTQ+ individuals remained closeted and felt isolated and antisocial. 

While their membership outed a lot of them, the men of the Chorus stood shoulder-to-shoulder, showing undeniable courage in a world of overwhelming prejudice and discrimination. Despite these challenges, being together eliminated much of their isolation as gay men. In the years since the Chorus was created, more than 2000 people have sung in it, including those identifying as transgender, women, and non-binary individuals. 

1981 National Tour Gives Life to LGBTQ+ Choruses Across U.S.

Because the 1981 National Tour served as such a pivotal moment in the rise of the LGBTQ+ choral movement, it’s important to study the history of this tour and the events that followed.

The San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus (SFGMC) delighted audiences in nine cities during the 1981 National Tour: 

1. Dallas

2. Minneapolis

3. Lincoln (Nebraska)

4. Detroit

5. New York

6. Boston

7. Washington, D.C.

8. Seattle

9. San Francisco

The Chorus was both musically and socially triumphant throughout the tour. This transformative journey provided the chorus members with an opportunity to sing across the country and created a bridge between LGBTQ+ individuals and their communities through a mutual appreciation of music.

A success like this changed so many lives, both inside and outside of the LGBTQ+ community, and is still changing lives today.

Get to Know GALA

No discussion of the rise of the LGBTQ+ choral movement is complete without including the history of GALA (Gay and Lesbian Association) Choruses. 

Founded in the early 1980s with just 14 LGBTQ+ ensembles, GALA has more than 190 choruses registered globally and expects to welcome as many as 15 new choirs yearly. 

It provides a number of resources and services to LGBTQ+ choruses, including:

• Administrative support

• Networking opportunities

• Discussion groups

• Annual leadership symposiums

• A resource library

• Invitations to their signature quadrennial festival

GALA Choruses Festival 2024

Every four years, around 6,000 singers attend the GALA Choruses Festival. They enjoy musical events, build community, attend workshops, and just plain have fun. GALA’s festival is the world’s most prominent LGBTQ+ performing arts festival and is world-renowned.

The next GALA Festival occurs in Minneapolis from Wednesday, July 10, to Sunday, July 14, 2024.

List of LGBTQ+ & Gay Choruses

Along with the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus and GALA, there are hundreds of other LGBTQ+ choruses that have formed over the years and perform around the world.

Below, you’ll find a list of some of the most well-known LGBTQ+ choruses worldwide that have played important roles in the LGBTQ+ choral movement. Whether traveling or looking for a local ensemble to join, these choruses offer an inclusive and supportive space for all members of the LGBTQ+ community.

Atlanta Gay Men’s Chorus

Jeffrey McIntyre founded Atlanta’s Gay Men’s Chorus in 1981. The choir initially had 45 singers but now has over 100 members. 

The Stonewall Choral

As the nation’s first gay and lesbian chorus, The Stonewall Chorale played a big role in the LGBTQ+ choral movement. It was established in 1977 by Donald Rock and currently has about 60 members. 

Gala Choruses 

The Gay and Lesbian Association (GALA) Choruses was established in 1982. It serves as an international association of LGBTQ+ choruses. The GALA Choruses organization assists LGBTQ+ choirs in their formation, artistic direction, administration, networking, and training. There are currently over 190 choruses registered with the organization, representing approximately 10,000 singers.

Lesbian Gay Chorus of San Francisco

The Lesbian Gay Chorus of San Francisco, recently renamed the Queer Chorus of San Francisco, was founded in 1980 by Jon Reed Sims. There are approximately 35 members.

Portland Lesbian Choir

The Portland Lesbian Choir was organized in 1986 to “elevate LGBTQ+ voices, emphasize equity, and encourage collaboration, growth, and service.”

Austin Gay Men’s Chorus

The Austin Gay Men’s Chorus was founded over 30 years ago by sixteen volunteers.

Boston Gay Men’s Chorus

The Boston Gay Men’s Chorus was founded in 1982. Fast forward over 40 years, and it now has over 300 members. Throughout its 40-year history, the Chorus’s membership has grown from 60 to over 1,600 members.

Chicago Gay Men’s Chorus

The Chicago Gay Men’s Chorus was created in 1983. Now, it has over 150 singing members.

Columbus Gay Men’s Chorus

The Columbus Gay Men’s Chorus convened in 1990 with founders Doug Althauser, Kevin Gary, Bob Germain, Phil Martin, and Jack Wisniewski. 

Connecticut Gay Men’s Chorus

The Connecticut Gay Men’s Chorus was assembled in 1986. Almost 40 years later, it remains the only of its kind in the state.

Des Moines Gay Men’s Chorus

Founded by Dr. Randal A. Buikema in 2001, the Des Moines Gay Men’s Chorus has a membership of 40-50 singers.

Heartland Men’s Chorus

The Heartland Men’s Chorus, created in 1986, currently features more than 120 singing members and welcomes non-singing members.

Gay Men’s Chorus of Los Angeles

Harold Kjellberg founded the Gay Men’s Chorus of Los Angeles in 1979 with 99 members. It has since grown to over 300 members.

New Hampshire Gay Men’s Chorus

The New Hampshire Gay Men’s Chorus began with 26 members in 1998. Richard Bojko, David R. Snelson, and David Swart were the founders.

New Orleans Gay Men’s Chorus

Jerry Zachary formed The New Orleans Gay Men’s Chorus in 1982.

New York City Gay Men’s Chorus

Ed Weaver founded the New York City Gay Men’s Chorus in 1979 with 80 original members. Today, the chorus has approximately 260 members.

Oakland Gay Men’s Chorus

Founded by Dick Kramer in 1999, the Oakland Gay Men’s Chorus currently has over 60 singers.

Denver Gay Men’s Chorus

Bob Moore founded the Denver Gay Men’s Chorus in 1982. At present, the Denver Gay Men’s Chorus has approximately 140 members.

Orlando Gay Men’s Chorus

The Orlando Gay Men’s Chorus, founded in 1990, started with 39 members. Today, there are over 100 members in the queer choir. 

Philadelphia Gay Men’s Chorus

Gerald Davis founded the Philadelphia Gay Men’s Chorus in 1981, and membership fluctuated from 20 to 60 members throughout the 80s and 90s. Now, the chorus includes more than 150 members.

Phoenix Metropolitan Men’s Chorus

The Phoenix Metropolitan Men’s Chorus was organized in 1991 as the Grand Canyon Men’s Chorale. The choir currently consists of over 100 members.

Portland Gay Men’s Chorus 

In 1980, Mark Richards, Mark Jones, and Gary Coleman founded the Portland Gay Men’s Chorus. The chorus began with 20 singers and today has 150 singing members and 25 non-singing members.

San Diego Men’s Chorus 

Forty-five men convened in San Diego for their first weekly rehearsal in 1985, following a benefit concert by The Gay Men’s Chorus of Los Angeles. Since 2010, the chorus has merged with The Gay Men’s Chorus of San Diego and is now called the San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus. Their membership is approximately 100 members.

San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus

Founded in 1978 by Jon Reed Sims, the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus has grown from nearly 115 members present at the first concert to more than 300 members today. 

Seattle Men’s Chorus

The group was founded in 1979 and currently has approximately 360 members. As a vibrant addition to the music scene and the LGBTQ+ choral movement in the PNW, they perform for an audience of around 30,000 patrons each year. 

Silicon Valley Gay Men’s Chorus

The Chorus was founded in 1983 as the San Jose Liedermann Chorus and had ten members. In 1985, it changed its name to Silicon Valley Gay Men’s Chorus (SVGMC). The Chorus has grown from ten members to approximately 50 as of 2023.

Turtle Creek Chorale

The Dallas-based Turtle Creek Chorale was formed by artistic director and conductor Harry E. Scher in 1980. Initially, the Chorus consisted of 39 members, but it has grown to nearly 200.

Twin Cities Gay Men’s Choir

A stop by the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus in Twin Cities in 1981 inspired 12 singers to form the Twin Cities Gay Men’s Choir. Today, there are 180 members.

Gay Men’s Chorus of Washington, D.C.

After a performance by the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus in 1981, the Gay Men’s Chorus of Washington, D.C., was established. Marsha Pearson distributed a poster advertising the meeting to organize a gay men’s chorus, attracting 18 men. The Washington DC Gay Men’s Choir has grown to over 300 singers.

Promoting Tolerance and Inclusion

Our lives continue to be political acts of resistance as LGBTQ+ people because we live in a world that struggles to embrace and support us for who we are. Even so, LGBTQ+ chorus members continue to stand together despite adversity, gaining greater self-confidence about their identity and community.

Today, LGBTQ+ choruses remain safe gathering spaces but their focus has expanded to multiple causes and to many different groups of people. For example, as the above list demonstrates, lesbian choruses are now becoming more commonplace. 

There has also been a rise in LGBTQ+ member choruses encouraging all community members, regardless of sexual orientation, gender identity, or expression, to join. This includes the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus, where we are proud to continue to be a big part of the LGBTQ choral movement.

The Future of the LGBTQ+ Choral Movement

The legacy of LGBTQ+ choruses worldwide proves that social justice, inclusivity, and acceptance are vital elements binding community members together. In addition to inspiring them to be their most authentic selves, LGBTQ+ choruses often offer the chance to connect with like-minded individuals, unite over their passions, and share that pride with their community. 

LGBTQ+ choruses are places where you enter an atmosphere of unconditional love, fulfillment, validation, and friendship. 

At the SFGMC, our mission is more than to serve as an LGBTQ+ chorus. We strive to ensure civil rights access for LGBTQ+ people, including their health, family, and careers. Keeping these goals in mind, we commission several songs to include crucial issues. We sing our hearts out at rallies, tours, and concerts to raise awareness of these challenges. 

The SFGMC has recently moved to and opened The Pansy L. Chan and Terrence D. Chan National Queer Arts Center. We look forward to seeing you there!

Our goal, in part, is to provide a sustainable livelihood for LGBTQ+ choruses for many generations. If you want to support our mission or continue our battle for social justice, please consider donating today! 

Did you enjoy learning about the rise of the LGBTQ+ choral movement?

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• The Legacy of LGBTQ+ Activists

• 19 Influential Gay Musicians From Throughout the Decades

Celebrating Gay History Month

Throughout October, the United States celebrates LGBTQ+ history month. You're wondering why October is LGBTQ+ history month, aren't you? Don't worry; we're here to answer your questions! October is designated as LGBTQ+ history month because several LGBTQ+ milestones, particularly two national marches to achieve our civil rights, occurred in October.

How and Why It Started

In 1994, Missouri high school history teacher, 29-year-old Rodney Wilson, was teaching his class about the Holocaust. Following Wilson's lesson, he explained to his class that had he lived in Europe; then, he likely would have been executed for being gay. This moment led Wilson to recognize the lack of LGBTQ+ history in the public school curriculum. With the support of other teachers and community members, the foundation for LGBTQ+ history month was formed. During LGBTQ+ history month, LGBTQ+ people will be celebrated and taught about their contributions and the movements they have undertaken to achieve their civil rights.

Why Celebrate LGBTQ History Month?

In celebrating LGBTQ+ History Month, you can generate traction and spark interest by focusing your efforts locally during the month. Learn about the LGBTQ+ history of your city, county, and state. Public schools aren't required to teach queer history, but a few do. Find out if your state is one of the few that incorporates Queer History Month into its curriculum and see if they need any help. 

Don't let LGBTQ+ history slip away; you can make a difference in the fight for equality by spreading the word. Start researching LGBTQ+ historical figures and share their stories and contributions on social media, urging friends and family to do the same. In light of this issue's current and pressing nature, make your voice heard by advocating for change today! 

The Difference Between LGBTQ History Month and Pride Month

LGBTQ+ history month differs from Pride month primarily in its overall message and purpose. LGBTQ+ history month highlights LGBTQ+ historical figures and their contributions to the world. In contrast, Pride month recognizes the past and ongoing struggles within the LGBTQ+ community while celebrating the diversity of experiences and their increased visibility.

LGBTQ+ Icons to Honor

• Harvey Milk made history as the first openly gay elected official in the United States, winning a seat on the Board of Supervisors in San Francisco, California, in 1977. Milk was, naturally, a fan of the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus as he was passionate about organizing activities to build community and connection amongst gay men. Although he could not see the formation of SFGMC, we performed during his candlelight vigil in his honor. 

• Marsha P. Johnson played a crucial role and was an influential leader of the early gay rights movement in New York City throughout the 1960s and 1970s. Johnson was also among the transgender women of color who fought in the Stonewall Riots in 1969. 

• Sylvia Rivera a prominent figure during the 1960s and 1970s in New York's gay rights movement, Rivera stood with other transgender women of color during the Stonewall Riots in 1969. She also advocated for transgender youth and women, particularly those of color.

• Billie Jean King played a significant role in women's tennis history during the 1960s and 1970s. King aimed to reduce the disparity in prize money between male and female athletes. In addition, King was the first female athlete to disclose her sexuality as a lesbian publicly. After retiring, King has become a fierce advocate for lesbian and gay rights.  

Other Important Days of Observance

What is National Coming Out Day?

National Coming Out Day was established in 1988 by Rob Eichberg and Jean O'Leary to raise awareness of the LGBTQ+ community and their struggle for civil rights. In honor of the second major gay and lesbian march in Washington in 1987, National Coming Out Day is celebrated annually on October 11th. As well as celebrating LGBTQ+ identities with other community members, National Coming Out Day offers LGBTQ+ individuals the opportunity to come out of the closet alongside others in the community.

What is International Pronouns Day?

International Pronouns Day is celebrated every year on the third Wednesday of October. During International Pronouns Day, we affirm the use of personal pronouns and emphasize the dignity of addressing others by their pronouns. Moreover, it promotes the normalization of sharing pronouns with others and the awareness of the importance of pronouns. 

This holiday has a special significance for transgender and gender non-conforming people, many of whom change their pronouns when transitioning. Gender non-conforming people, for example, may feel that he/him and she/her pronouns do not honor their identity. Therefore, they may prefer a gender-neutral pronoun such as they/them instead. If you do not know a person's pronouns, it is always better to ask than assume what their pronouns may be. 

What is LGBTQ+ Spirit Day?

The annual observance of LGBTQ+ Spirit Day takes place on the third Thursday of October. Spirit Day aims to spread awareness about the bullying and harassment facing LGBTQ+ youth and the high suicide rates among teens. 

Spirit Day was founded in September 2010 by Brittany McMillian. McMillian stumbled across a website discussing the suicides of gay teenagers directly tied to being bullied. It was through her support and solidarity with people facing similar struggles that she felt persuaded to do something about anti-bullying. 

SFGMC’s Contribution to LGBTQ History

In 1978, the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus was an immediate success, with more than 100 men attending its first rehearsal. It was the only gay men's chorus in the world at the time, let alone the only one whose name was so openly and proudly gay. We went on our first national tour in 1981 as HIV began to spread. Throughout our travels around the country, more and more cities were interested in forming gay choruses; the movement even spread internationally. On that tour, we saw first-hand the difference we could make in people's lives. As a result, we became inspired to become a national activist organization that uses music to connect LGBTQ+ people with their communities and society.
Today, our community activism roots still ring true. For example, we work with local schools to teach love, inclusion, acceptance, and strength. In addition, our Performing Arts Center, The Chan National Queer Arts Center, has enabled us to expand our leadership role in the community even more. With the community's help, we can all come together and inspire the change in society we know we need. Not just now but also in the future.

As we honor LGBTQ+ history month, Pride, National Coming Out Day, International Pronouns Day, and LGBTQ+ Spirit Day, we pay homage to all of those who came before us and stand proudly with those walking with us now. Looking closely at LGBTQ+ history, you can see how much has changed in the past few decades and how much will continue to change. 

Like any other community, we have made significant contributions to the fabric of this nation; for that reason, we celebrate and feel proud of who we are. Our greatest gift today is that every LGBTQ+ person finds their place within the community; we are stronger.

Donate to SFGMC today and help us make, advance, and support LGBTQ+ people, our communities, and historical progress for decades to come.

FAQ

Why Do We Celebrate Pride Month in June and LGBT History in October

We celebrate Pride in June to commemorate the 1969 Stonewall Riots in New York City. Alternatively, LGBTQ+ History Month is celebrated in October because, in 1979 and 1987, the first and second marches on Washington for gay and lesbian civil rights took place. On top of that, October is also National Coming Out Day.

SFGMC’s LGBT Volunteers San Francisco

As an organization, we believe that our communities can be cured, educated, and inspired by music. Our chorus members carry this mission with pride wherever they go and showcase their support through the countless hours of community outreach they complete every year. We encourage others to be volunteers who get involved and provide hope, stand up against hate, and share the power of embracing your authentic self in their communities.

SFGMC Chorus Members Volunteer in the Community

Music is a healing method, an educational tool, and a source of inspiration for our communities. Through hours of outreach each year, our chorus members demonstrate their dedication to serving our community. Our mission is to create exceptional music, organize community-building events, inspire activism, and foster compassion both here at home and worldwide. We are dedicated to helping people connect with their true selves, serve their communities, and stand up against hate. 
Here are just a few of the things our chorus members do to advance our mission.

Give Em’ Hope Awards

Our founders built the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus on Harvey Milk's leadership principles early on in our history. Throughout the San Francisco bay area, we employed the mission "You've gotta give 'em hope" as the cornerstone of our community outreach efforts. From this, The Give Em' Hope Awards were born. This program actively supports young artists from underserved and diverse communities and was developed in collaboration with The National Queer Arts Center. Any form of art is welcome, including performing arts, visual arts, literature, and film, as long as it focuses on the theme of hope. 

We all felt the effects of COVID-19, but we understood that young people were adversely affected. In light of the pandemic in 2021, we chose to focus on the work of those who were still hopeful. As a result of COVID-19 pandemic restrictions, we were unable to host the award ceremony in person. A ceremony was held online to recognize the young people's accomplishments and talents. Inspired by the talent of these young, under-resourced artists, David Falzone, a member of the chorus, and his family, made the first donation through which the winners received monetary prizes.

RHYTHM

In addition to its musical programs, the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus offers public education and social events that unite communities and people. Our Reaching Youth Through Music (RHYTHM) program is one example. This workshop runs for two weeks for elementary, middle, and high schools throughout the Bay Area. We have served over 10,000 students in the Bay Area since 2018 with RHYTHM. 

The San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus conducts workshops to encourage students, especially LGBT students, to lead authentic lives through messages of love, acceptance, and strength. As part of RHYTHM's education platform, students are taught about the LGBT community and guided to gain awareness, acceptance, and leadership skills. In addition, students learn how they can become role models in their community.

Outside Voices Curriculum

We place great importance on public education and preparing the next generation for the world. So, we worked with the It Gets Better Project to develop Outside Voices, a six-week curriculum. Suitable for students in grades 6-12, this workbook can be used alongside RHYTHM in schools or as a standalone resource for anyone seeking to empower youth through storytelling and promote positive community change. 

Through performance art pieces (song, rap, spoken word, or monologue), students are encouraged to articulate their own stories, use art as an activist tool, and get involved in their communities. Mitch Galli, our Associate Artistic Director, has also produced a video demonstration of each lesson. 

Non-Chorus Member LGBT Volunteers San Francisco

If you live in the San Francisco bay area and are passionate about working with the LGBT community, yet aren't a singer, don't fret! There are many ways to participate in the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus. We have plenty of volunteer opportunities, including working at events or programs and interacting with visitors. If you want to connect with like-minded people in the Bay Area and meet people with similar values, this is a fantastic opportunity! 

Leads

Leads provide help and guidance to other volunteers regarding their assignments. Training will be provided for all leads according to their specific volunteer assignment

Floaters

Outdoor floaters are stationed throughout the venue to welcome patrons, collect their IDs, and verify vaccination status. As well as managing foot traffic, they will direct patrons where to go, explain what to expect, and tell them what to prepare. 

Indoor floaters direct patrons to restrooms and box offices, answering questions and directing foot traffic.

Vaccine Checkers

During the COVID-19 pandemic, many of our performing venues have mask and vaccine requirements. Patrons are required to present their vaccine cards (both physical and digital) before entering the venue. Vaccine checkers make sure everyone is safe to enter the building to enjoy the show.

Ticket Checkers

Patrons must show a ticket (physical or digital) for entry. Our ticket checkers are there to verify they hold some version of a ticket to maintain accountability, efficiency, and continuous flow. 

Box office

Box office attendants distribute Will Call orders or provide tickets to patrons who have misplaced them. However, the box office lead will also handle door sales.

Additional Support

Support volunteers are only assigned if there is a surplus of volunteers. These volunteers fill in for no-shows, assist our front-of-house staff members, or even help with the singers backstage. In addition, if any unpredicted needs arise, they will step in and save the day.

Get Involved!

As an organization, The San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus thrives because of its volunteers. We are eternally grateful for the time and energy our volunteers give to the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus. In most cases, volunteers are behind the scenes putting on the show and ensuring patrons enjoy themselves. 

Our volunteers are singers and non-singers alike. They come together because of their commitment to working with the LGBTQ+ community and their unwavering belief that music can inspire, unify, and educate the world. If you share our passion for working with the LGBTQ community and believe in the power of music and community service, don't hesitate to contact the volunteer coordinator today! 

We are holding auditions for the 45th season of the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus this August. So if you can sing in the tenor or bass range, be it on stage or in the shower, and are interested in participating in our outreach programs, we invite you to audition. No matter your gender identity, gender expression, sexual orientation, or race, we welcome singers with a wide variety of singing experiences.

1980s AIDS Crisis: What Do We Know & How Have Things Changed?

Three years before the AIDS epidemic swept the nation in 1981, the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus opened its doors. We couldn't imagine how much the crisis of AIDS in 1980s would affect our community and we could not have predicted how many people would turn to the Chorus for refuge and a sense of community. 

Let’s take a look back at the AIDS epidemic history over the past 40 years and how it affected not only our Chorus and our community, but our entire society.

The Beginning of the 1980s AIDS Crisis

There is no clear explanation for the cause of HIV. The first recorded case was in 1959 in a Congolese man's blood sample. While he was HIV positive, the exact details of whether he developed and died of AIDS are unknown. 

Decades later when the 1980s AIDS crisis started, there was only one understanding of HIV/AIDS: it only affected young gay men. These men soon developed uncommon opportunistic infections that previously only affected individuals with compromised immune systems and rare forms of cancer. 

As a result, the Center for Disease Control (CDC) formed a Task Force in the summer of 1981 to address KS/OI (Kaposi's Sarcoma and Opportunistic Infections). 

Although HIV and AIDS had originally surfaced decades prior, some believing as far back as the 1930s, the AIDS epidemic mercilessly swept across the United States and the world throughout the 1980s and early 1990s.

Today, more than 70 million people worldwide have HIV infections, and about 35 million have died from AIDS since the beginning of the epidemic. 

The 1980s AIDS Crisis: Decade Timeline

While it is impossible to condense the AIDS crisis into one succinct timeline, here are some of the most significant events throughout the epidemic.

For a very detailed HIV/AIDS timeline, visit this in-depth resource from HIV.gov.

The 1920s-1950s

As early as the 1920s, Pneumocystis pneumonia outbreaks ravaged northern and central Europe, with premature infants being the primary victims as they peaked in the 1950s when post-war Europe began recovering.

Experts believed that contaminated glass syringes and needles significantly contributed to the spread of the disease. However, modern research suggests a deeper origin: a retrovirus similar to HIV or even a milder form of HIV. Some speculate Cameroon (which was once a German colony) introduced the virus to Europe. 

The first wave of this epidemic occurred in Danzig City in 1939; it spread to neighboring countries like Switzerland and the Netherlands in the following years.

In December 1959, a Congolese man died of what is now known to be the first recorded case of HIV. 

The 1960s

While the domestic history of the AIDS crisis is commonly thought of as beginning in the 1980s, at least two other cases of HIV occurred in the United States in the 1960s, both in children who had received blood transfusions.

The 1970s

In the 1970s, the groundwork for the AIDS crisis was being subtly laid, although the full-blown epidemic and awareness of it would emerge mainly in the subsequent decade. 

The first recognized cases appeared in the late 1970s when individuals presented with rare diseases like Kaposi's sarcoma. In 1969, a teenager from St. Louis, Robert Rayford, passed away from an unidentifiable illness. 

Eighteen years later, researchers at Tulane University discovered evidence of HIV in his remains. As the 1970s drew to a close, between 100,000 to 300,000 people might have already been infected with HIV. 

Then, in 1980, the symptoms and cases became more noticeable, marking the beginning of a global health crisis that would be officially named and recognized in the 1980s

The 1980s AIDS Crisis

In June 1981, the CDC published a report on five previously healthy young gay men diagnosed with KS/OI. This was the first recognized sign of what would become known as the AIDS epidemic in the 1980s.

The term "AIDS" is officially coined in September 1982 by the CDC. HIV is said to have already spread to at least 15 countries by now.

Until 1983 the WHO released their first assessment of the global AIDS crisis, the disease was still widely believed to only be a “gay disease”. Included in the WHO's first assessment of the global AIDS crisis was the recognition of HIV/AIDS transmission through:

• Blood transfusions (Blood banks in the United States and Europe start screening their blood supply for HIV by the mid 1980s, greatly reducing the risk of transmission through contaminated blood products)

• Heterosexual contacts

• Mother-to-child routes (infected mothers could pass HIV to their babies)

In 1985, researchers introduced antibody blood tests to screen for infections, though they had a limited scope. WHO emerged as a central figure in the AIDS battle. By 1986, Surgeon General C. Everett Koop clarified misconceptions about HIV transmission, urging nationwide education, condom use, and voluntary HIV testing.

The first World AIDS Day was observed on December 1, 1988, and has since been recognized annually as a day to raise awareness and support for those living with HIV. This day is also an opportunity to remember those who have lost their lives to AIDS-related illnesses.

The 1990s

1996 proved to be a momentous year in the history of the AIDS epidemic. The 11th International AIDS Conference took place in Vancouver, where a combination of antiretroviral treatment was introduced for the first time that proved to be effective against HIV. This was also the year the United Nations established the The Joint United Nations Programme on AIDS (UNAIDS).

The year following these events, 1997, was the first year the AIDS death rate declined since the epidemic began. Still, in 1997, UNAIDS estimates that, 30 million adults and children around the world had HIV, along with 16,000 people being newly infected with the virus each day. 

In 1998, AIDSVAX began the first human trial of an AIDS vaccine for which more than 5,000 U.S. volunteers signed up.

The 2000s

In 2002, the Global Fund to Fight AIDS, Tuberculosis, and Malaria was created to fund programs aimed at preventing and treating these diseases. By 2019, the Global Fund has invested over $45 billion in efforts to end the epidemics.

Advancements in HAART

The 2000s also brought improved and more accessible antiretroviral drugs with fewer side effects. HAART regimens transformed AIDS treatment, making it possible for individuals to live longer, healthier lives.

Now, in 2023, modern antiretroviral therapy has made living with HIV/AIDS a manageable chronic condition. These medications suppress the virus, allowing individuals to maintain healthy immune systems and live longer lives.

Prevention and Education

Pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) (which received FDA-approval in 2012) and post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) are now widely available, offering protection to individuals at risk of contracting HIV. Education about safe sex and harm reduction strategies has played a crucial role in HIV prevention.

U=U: Undetectable = Untransmittable

Another relatively recent landmark development in AIDS treatment is the "U=U" campaign (launched in 2015), which stands for "Undetectable = Untransmittable." It means that individuals with an undetectable viral load cannot transmit the virus to their partners through sexual contact.

A Long Road Ahead

While significant progress has been made in AIDS treatment and prevention, challenges remain. Stigma, disparities in access to care, and the high cost of medications are ongoing issues that must be addressed.

What Was AIDS Called in 1981?

"Gay-Related Immune Deficiency" (GRID) was coined by doctors in 1981 to describe what would later become AIDS. Nevertheless, society at large referred to the virus as a "gay disease" due to its rapid spread within the LGBTQ+ community, particularly among gay men. Then, in 1982 the CDC coined the term AIDS for the first time.

Who Was the Most Affected by the AIDS Crisis in the 80s?

In the early 1980s, AIDS was initially perceived as a 'white gay disease,' affecting primarily white gay and bisexual men. This perception overshadowed the needs of ethnic minorities, leading to a lack of outreach and early treatment options for them.

However, by the mid-80s, the CDC observed that African Americans faced a disproportionate AIDS diagnosis rate. This spurred black activists to advocate for more inclusive AIDS campaigns and initiatives. Parallelly, black, gay, and lesbian communities launched campaigns emphasizing AIDS's non-discriminatory nature.

AIDS in the 80s and Beyond: The Impact on the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus

AIDS in San Francisco in the 1980s was devastating and catastrophic. Amid this crisis, the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus (SFGMC) emerged as an essential organization that not only provided support to those affected by AIDS but also raised awareness and fought against the stigma surrounding the disease. 

Along with being a support system for its members who were living with AIDS or had lost loved ones to the disease, the SFGMC also suffered great losses within its own community.

Our founder, Jon Reed Sims, was diagnosed with AIDS in January 1984 and passed away six months later. Though Sims did not live long enough to observe the impact the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus would have on gay communities nationwide, the Chorus was inspired to carry on his legacy. 

In honor of Sims, we created the Fifth Section to commemorate the over 300 HIV-positive members of our Chorus who lost their lives to HIV/AIDS or other complications since his passing. 

Members of our Fifth Section remain listed in our concert programs and on our website, ensuring their spirits and memories will remain alive. As the AIDS/HIV epidemic in the 80s raged, the Chorus gave many a platform to cope with grief and support one another. Through the support of our surviving and new members, we keep going and remind ourselves of the power of song during some of the most challenging times of our lives. 

The Present: Why the HIV Epidemic is Not Over

As we touched on earlier, the HIV epidemic is far from over. Hurdles remain in not only overcoming the disease itself, but also the stigma and other challenges surrounding it. 

Since the beginning of the epidemic of HIV in the 80s, over 40 years ago, researchers have examined how socioeconomic status, access to health care, and HIV/AIDS transmission affect communities and countries worldwide. 

According to their findings, several factors significantly limit interactions between individuals living with HIV/AIDS and those without the condition.

These include:

• Homophobia

• The stigmatization of HIV/AIDS

• A lack of public awareness (including HIV vaccine awareness)

These barriers can create a discouraging environment, ultimately hindering people from seeking care and support. 

We must address these issues comprehensively to promote inclusivity, understanding, and access to healthcare services for all individuals affected by HIV/AIDS.

Even with the advancement in understanding and treatment, HIV/AIDS remains a severe health threat worldwide due to the lack of treatment centers, limited educational resources, and a shortage of STI testing centers. 

AIDS prevention relies heavily on public awareness and education campaigns. Unfortunately, as much as 13% of HIV-positive people in the United States are unaware of their status. As a result, HIV-positive people are more likely to acquire AIDS and transmit HIV without treatment. 

San Francisco General Hospital developed a holistic approach to HIV/AIDS care in 1983, still in practice today. They focus on raising awareness, educating patients and the public, and addressing social, psychological, economic, and medication aspects. 

They offer:

• HIV testing

• Counseling

• Financial assistance

• Housing

• Home care

• Emotional support

• Community education

The hospital also provides specialized training for physicians and nurses.

HIV/AIDS: The Stigma

As the stigma surrounding HIV/AIDS remains prevalent in our society, it's worth noting again how societal attitudes contribute to the spread of HIV. The fear, misinformation, and discrimination associated with HIV/AIDS can prevent individuals from getting tested or seeking treatment. This results in a lack of awareness, further spreading the virus.

For our part, the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus (SFGMC) is dedicated to breaking this stigma through its powerful musical performances and community outreach programs. 

Make an Impact by Supporting Our Mission

During the AIDS crisis, for many, the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus was not just about singing but a sanctuary and lifeline. Our music offered solace, strength, and empowerment during those dire times. 

To combat HIV/AIDS, you can donate, participate in pride celebrations, educate yourself and others about the virus, or be an LGBTQ+ ally. Your support for the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus enables us to produce impactful music, foster community, inspire activism, and spread compassion globally.

Please consider donating to aid our mission against HIV/AIDS. Every contribution counts.

When did AIDS become a crisis?

The CDC reported in the Morbidity and Mortality Weekly Report in June 1981 that five young, healthy gay men in Los Angeles had contracted PCP, a rare lung infection. While not known then, this article described the effects of HIV/AIDS. Even though it was unknown to the general public at the time, we have come to believe that it marked the beginning of the AIDS crisis.

How many AIDS cases were there in 1981?

There were 337 reported cases of HIV in the United States in December 1981, but the CDC estimates that roughly 42,000 people were unknowingly HIV positive at the time.

Can you survive having AIDS?

Treatment for AIDS can improve the immune system, reduce virus levels in the body, and decrease complications associated with the disease. However, without treatment, patients with AIDS have an average life expectancy of about three years.

What does AIDS look like?

Most newly infected people do not display any rash, but for those that do, it is often the first sign of HIV. HIV rashes are large areas of flat reddened skin with tiny bumps. Additionally, you may see swollen lymph nodes, oral thrush, night sweats, or sudden and unexplained weight loss. It is important to note that HIV/AIDS does not always have obvious symptoms; most people do not display any. Seek medical attention as soon as possible if you're concerned that you've been exposed to HIV/AIDS.